Lately I’ve been experiencing feeling in the mood to have sex with my boyfriend and I joke about it when we begin our date, but as we are getting closer to the end of the date and when we’ll have sex I start to feel so anxious and worry I won’t like it and it obviously then spills over to not full enjoying it and being in the moment. Can anyone relate/have any advice to overcome this?

Sexual Orientation OCD

Relationship OCD

I get worried about that as well... I’m a virgin and I never really had “S” with a girl yet... but I hope I do... my HOCD keeps making me think I won’t like it or I’ll get intrusive thoughts during it that will ruin the mood 😞😞😞... but no girl would ever give me the chance...