Any Christians have advice on who you should date as a Christian? Right now I have a friend who I honestly see more as a friend who might want to ask me out. He is a good Christian guy but I'm just not sure I really see him that way. I follow this page on Instagram, however, that says if they are a Christian, attraction doesn't really matter and you should you just date other Christians. I just don't know how to decide.

I'm not a Christian - would you still want to hear my thoughts on this? No hurt feelings if not - I only bring this up because I can only give advice based on my own subjective experiences and observations, which may or may not be helpful to you.

Sure go ahead 😊

Just cuz ur Christian doesnt mean ur not human... u are still going to follow the same human protocol when choosing a lifelong partner. I'm sure God intended for you to be happy ALL AROUND when im a relationship. Even though he may seem like a nice boy, good morals ND all, I believe you still need to make sure the feeling of AGAPE (search the bible term) is mutual between the 2. Plus include all other christian morals the bible suggests. I definitely don't recommend you get into a lifelong commitment without sharing the feeling. Marriage is meant to be with 2 people that love each other AND share same morals. 😊

yeah!!

I think this too. My OCD gets in the way of things like this and makes me feel like I am going to make the wrong decision so that makes it very stressful. He hasnt even talked to me yet but he was asking my brother if I was single so that kind of made me think he was thinking about it.

Correction.... NOT Agape Love... I meant EROS love ...lol my bad

Hi! Im christian too. If you are sure about your feelings; if you like him very much and you see him as the person you want to marry, i recommend you seeing what the bible says about these relationships, and how your future husband should be. And also taking advice from people around you that are also christian but above all, pray to God and ask him if that boy is the one.

As well as I know him I don't see him as who I would want to marry. I think he is a great guy and I do like that he is following God well (from what I have seen) I just don't know that I would see him as more than a friend. But I remember at like 15 wishing he'd have a crush on me but I don't even know if I wanted to date him then, I just wanted people to have crushes on me 😅 but now that's freaking me out like"oh you wanted him to like you back then, you must want him to like you now" 🙁

@Anyonomous Oh, I understand. Well, if your don’t see him as the man you’re marrying.. then don’t do it! Because it is not ok to be with someone you’re not sure about. And ocd makes that difficult. It cand make you think you like him when you’re not.