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Melodyocd
34d ago
  • Sexual Orientation OCD
  • Relationship OCD

Going on a second date with a guy I’m not 100% sure I fancy and the soocd thoughts are sneaking in. Doing my best to not let them win and make me cancel the date but it’s so tricky 😭

Pratboi 604
34d ago
My suggestion is to take it easy on yourself. Be honest with yourself and know that whatever the outcome is, you will still have yourself and that is all you need. If it goes well then do tell us btw 👍 Good luck
Melodyocd
34d ago
Thank you!
Whatabtme
34d ago
Good luck! Resist those compulsions and just focus on the present if you can, you've got this!
Melodyocd
34d ago
Thank you! Gonna try my best to not overanalyse everything!
Melodyocd
33d ago
Just got back from the date, it was fun (we went bowling and I lost haha). But I still don’t think I fancy him. I find it hard to get a conversation out of him and he’s not very funny (which is a big thing for me). Soocd thoughts are getting to me right now
Whatabtme
33d ago
Just want you to know you are doing the brave thing by having gone on the date anyway, best way to get the upper hand on ocd is to continue living life anyway!
Melodyocd
30d ago
@Whatabtme Thank you!