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- 6y ago
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- 6y ago
Sometimes if I feel like I’m going “down the rabbit hole” of rumination, I try to remind myself that it’s a compulsion and do my best to focus my thoughts elsewhere. But, if I find that my brain will ruminate whether or not I give it permission, I just let it do its thing. BUT, and this is important, I consistently interrupt it saying to myself “this is a compulsion”, and even try to name what kind of compulsion it is (self reassurance, checking, scenario twisting, etc). My therapist has said that even if you perform a compulsion (intentional or not), if you can recognize what it is and say “my OCD wants me to think this helped me, but I know it didn’t”, then you’ve still won. The trick is not believing the lie that the compulsions help, even if they’ve already happened. You can always look back and change the story you tell yourself about compulsions, and it sort of “neutralizes” them. Hope that helps makes sense? Rumination is my number one compulsion, it can be really hard. You’re not alone!!
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- 6y ago
I found this video very helpful on how to stop ruminating. Might be worth checking out for you too. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qUFvvlnCvSg
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- 6y ago
thank you guys this really helped ?
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- 6y ago
Yep, baby steps I'm noticing that I'm having the thought that_________ And I'm noticing that I'm having the thought that___________ And now I'm choosing to _________ and best of all it's my choice so no matter how many times I'll get caught up in the rumination I can always come back to my choice . Because it's my choice to stop ruminating . It's not me it's my OCD. But what if it's not ocd ? A. Than I wouldn't have the thought B. I wouldnt notice that I had the thought I'll let you take the leapof faith
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- 6y ago
I’d like to know as well, haha.
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- 22w ago
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- 20w ago
Advice needed please: Has anybody ever been in a situation where something traumatic or heartbreaking was happening in their life and struggled with rumination? I know there is like a normal amount that you should process something and cry it out but I don’t know that it is conducive to anything to do that on and off for hours? Wouldn’t it at a certain point be considered unhelpful rumination? And if so how does one stop? Because I’m going through something so hurtful and confusing that I don’t know how to stop thinking about it and the usual distractions don’t work for very long. And idk how important this is but it just happened today so it’s very fresh which makes it even harder to not think about and “figure out” why x, y, z happened. Goodness, I’m sorry if I’m weird or a baby
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- 15w ago
I’m having a big OCD relapse and would like to hear anyone’s tips on how to be present and healthily deal with these intrusive thoughts and the “need” to preform compulsions. Thank you!!
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