- Username
- Tori
- Date posted
- 3y ago
She said you were too difficult to counsel ?
Is she a NOCD therapist? If so, I would contact the folks at NOCD to discuss this. If not, I’m sorry this happened. Therapists or not all good people; it’s also possible this was just not a good fit. Did she actually say you were too difficult? Did she mean that you need more help than she can give? I’m sorry you had this experience. There are good therapist out there; you need to weed through them sometimes.
Sorry to hear that
I had a therapist once who called me a B$@&h. Real nice and really professional.
No way ! Are you serious ? If you don’t mind sharing . Why did she call you that ?
@Junior96! No idea. It just came out of nowhere
@Lms526 Wow . That’s unprofessional and very rude . That’s a huge concern . I hope she never counsels anyone again . I’m sorry to hear that
And she was constantly her personal beliefs in session. I was unemployed, so I went to a community clinic. I had another counselor at the same place. At first. She was great. Until I told her about a sexual assault I experienced in college. Then she completely changed. She refused to see me until I could tell her what I wanted to do for a career. The only thing I can think of is that something in my story hit a nerve.
I had another counselor at a different place that kept telling me I was depressed even though I knew I wasn't.
My NOCD counselor has been amazing.
Yeah that’s just super strange . She doesn’t seem fit to be a counselor at all … like at all .
Ugh, I went to my therapist today and she said in the last minutes of the session: No, but who knows. Some people with forty years or something discover their sexuality is other. We are here to stop make you obsessing and worrying. The theme is not important, so who knows. And it's like "thaaaaank you", know Im afraid for all the week with this in my head. What a bad way of portraying it, seriously. I know it is true and that is okay, and I know who I feel about it but these thought only make my rumination go wild. In some way is important to choose your words. She is great and all but sometimes I CAN'T.
My therapist just said something that absolutely triggered me and now I want to cry. She said that some of my thoughts may not be intrusive, if a thought makes me feel good then it means that I have to accept it so that the world can too. But my thoughts don't make me feel good, they make feel uncomfortable and distressed what the heck does that mean. She's great with helping you having a more positive mindset but I desperately need a cbt therapist right now
Has anyone else had therapy with someone who just isn’t working for you?
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