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I do a lot of crossword puzzles! I also journal what I’m feeling. For some reason when I do that it helps the thoughts go away.
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I love that idea thank you
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Thinking that you need to keep them at bay will only work for so long. That's basically though suppression. Which will make you anxious and that you need to be in control which in fact is an illusion. We aren't in control of most things. Only thing we can control is our focus by being intentional with it. Just remind yourself with compassion that you're not the thoughts that pop into your mind and that thoughts are just thoughts and not a definition of your character or personality. If you feel going down a spiral, with kindness, redirect your focus to something else. We can't control the thoughts but we can decide where to place our focus. You don't need to control the thoughts. That's impossible. Control the reaction to it by focusing on something else that is good. Hope this makes sense and helps
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- 3y
That makes a lot of sense. You’re so right
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What do you mean by saying keeping your thoughts at bay? If you don’t mind me asking.
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I mean like surpressing them so they don’t take up so much of your time
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Practice not analyzing any of the noise, NO matter what. Instead place your attention on this present moment. Feel your feet on the ground, take a deep breathe, go for a walk, read, go hangout with a close companion, or play a sport. Not avoiding the discomfort, but choosing to do things you want to do and not give any attention to dwelling on that.The most important part being the response prevention. Not easy, but part of the work. When this type of situation occurs and we are in environments in which we are organically exposed to distress, use this as an opportunity to practice doing the work! This allows for two things; showing yourself you can handle and tolerate it, and also letting your body know that although you feel uncomfortable you are willing to keep doing whatever it is you are doing and getting on with your day!
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Hi everyone. I’ve been doing therapy for about two months now and I would say it’s slowly helping me a lot. I explained to her the breathing techniques and “sitting in the anxiety for a bit” and I feel like those are helping. But then my therapist said “don’t sit in the thought because then you might act on it”. I don’t “sit in the thought” but rather i sit in the anxiety to comdition my brain into thinking it’s not a threat. But ever since yesterday, my therapy appointment, I’ve been really shooken up. Even though I don’t “sit in the thought” I feel like a bad person that she even had to bring it up even though I explained it wrong. I’m so upset I feel like I just took 3000 steps back from my progress and this little thing is really scaring me. Am I a bad person? I don’t want to act on any of my thoughts and it scares me so bad I hate living.
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I’m a bit curious, I’ve come up with many ways to handle them, I don’t have therapy, but how do ya’ll deal with them? Is it normal to come up with other compulsions to kinda just tame them? Or to convince yourself they’re not real? I’ve had different ways of handling them, but most times I get obsessed with the way of handling it or the thought that helps me beat the bad/concerning/thoughts to the point it just stops working and I need to find a more effective thought, compulsion or thing.
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- 21w
What's a piece of advice you give when someone has constantly intrusive thoughts and ruminations that won't stop? Interested to see what you tell others.....more on this when I see some replies!!!
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