Any men out there with ocd about masculinity?

Obsessions about whether you are masculine or masculine enough? Or alternatively feminine or too feminine.

I have so ocd (and other themes, though less severe). But think I have some ocd about my masculinity. Generally fear I’m not masculine enough. Or that my mannerisms and behavior is perceived as unmasculine. Not universally, just in some ways. And I have obsessed over them for years. Until I had an ocd diagnosis (so ocd was what led me to diagnosis) I didn’t realize this could be ocd. I’m finding it (ocd) in so many areas of my life.