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To me you seem very heterosexual (not reassuring you just a genuine observation.) For what itās worth, as a bisexual girl, I really donāt think itās possible to āloseā attraction for one gender over the other like I thought I did at one point, so at least thereās that: your attraction to males will never go away no matter what, even if you really tried your hardest to stop liking them. Also I have never ever met a lesbian/bisexual woman who ever felt anything remotely like the way you do. So thatās something else that at least sets you apart from women who arenāt straight.
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I really appreciate that. And kind a needed to hear it. Thank you I feel like and Iām not trying to be weird but sometimes I feel like my heterosexuality is probably more obvious to other people than it is to me and itās very strange sensation lol
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@Bookworm91 Iām so glad I could help!!! :D And yeah I donāt think OCD would make you stress out and obsess over whether or not youāre straight like this if you werenāt straight. I know that OCD basically attacks whatever the most important things are to you.
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@Bookworm91 Personally, Iām comfortable complimenting the appearance/clothes of both girls and guys who I have no attraction to. If I wasnāt able to compliment other peopleās appearances without it being a form of flirting etc then I wouldnāt be able to compliment anyone haha. Also I used to be super self conscious about my looks and would be jealous of other prettier girls in high school, so noticing the beauty of other women is also common for that reason.
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@Daniela! May I ask you one more thing? I wouldnāt bother you if it wasnāt really disturbing me
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@Bookworm91 Go ahead!!! Ask away ^^
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@Daniela! Can I please talk to you? I promise that I wonāt bombard like last time
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@Daniela! Itās just, I donāt want to be offensive, but I feel like I need advice only you could give cause of your orientation. I hope to GOD that isnāt rude or offensive š„ŗ
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@Bookworm91 Hey no worries! I totally understand
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@Daniela! So uhā¦is there a way youād give my post from 4 hours ago a look? I hate how needy OCD makes me š
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@Daniela! So uhā¦.guessing thatās a no?
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@Bookworm91 Sorry I was busy haha Iāll check it rn
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@Daniela! Aww thanks šš»
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Why are things so real the first time theyāre in my mind and then when I think about it later itās easier for me to be like wtf?? I was watching a movie earlier and the young girl had developed more in the chest area than the last movie and I felt the desire to check her out so I did. Then later I let myself imagine her having sex and I liked it. But now looking back Iām like ew. The boys in the movie have also developed as the movie went on and I couldnāt help but think that in their real life theyāve probably woken up to boners and s*men and stuff. And looking back itās just ugh. Idk if itās sexual relevance but I genuinely let myself indulge in these thoughts and groinal responses and I remember thinking to myself I donāt want to be attracted to little kids and how do I stop myself (everyone has attractive qualities so in younger boys I see man like qualities). Idk I need help. I wouldnāt type this out if I truly believe I was messed up but Iām still scared
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I am a 18 year old masc lesbian with a loving girlfriend for 1 year, and I have been lesbian for almost my whole life and I have never been attracted to men in any way. flash to my past, My ex girlfriend who used to identify as a lesbian had cheated on me with a man. Recently I saw this tiktok of this masc lesbian turn straight and my friends and girlfriend made jokes I am going to turn straight for my male best friend. My male best friend came over and heās a great guy but I do not want him in any way. when him and i were hanging out my mind threw in a thought it was āWhat if i like himā, i came back home and i had the worst panic attack and i felt so sick, i cried and i cried. ever since that day I have been struggling with intrusive thoughts, i donāt want a man in any way, and i feel comfortable as a lesbian but these thoughts wonāt stop and they become worse when i see people say being lesbian is a phase or that i havenāt met the right guy or iāll change in the future. i just want these thoughts to stop, i donāt want to stop being a lesbian ever, i love women so much and i just want all of this to be over with. i do not want a man in any way and im tired of my thoughts doubting myself and i hate the āwhat ifsā, I just want to be my old self, I want to be happy with my girlfriend.
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I wonāt explain this again if youāve been or going through it you know what Iām talking about. I felt good about women about an hour ago and now Iām worrying again Iām anxious and the groinals are back and itās so annoying because I canāt study. And honestly Iām so sick and tired of this. Iāve been a girl crazy my whole life and my mind randomly decides āwell what if you are gayā like bro. Iāve never seen a guy that way and in general IT WAS NEVER SOMETHING I THOUGHT ABOUT OR ASSOCIATED MYSELF WITH. IVE NEVER FELT ANYTHING TOWARDS A MAN AND NOW IT FEELS LIKE IT RANDOMLY FLIPPED. I CANT DO THIS BRO. WHY WOULD THIS HAPPEN IVE BEEN GOING THROUGH INSECURITIES ALREADY AND MY ATTRACTION WAS THE ONLY REAL THING I HAD LEFT AND NOW THIS. HOW MUCH DO YOU HATE ME GOD.
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