Is it normal to be scared of dating and not understand why? In the past I’ve felt a lot of anxiety when guys say they like me. I’d love to be in a relationship at some point and maybe ease into it with the right person but commitment is quite scary for some reason. My current theme is that I’m aromantic and in denial so this is definitely reassurance seeking! How do I stop ruminating over my relationship anxiety - it’s like the more I try and figure it out the less certain I get of anything. I don’t want to be anxious about dating I wish I was normal and could just get into a relationship like everybody else :(