I just did a mentality change that is really helping me with my doubts.
We all have doubts right (rocd and pure ocd)? So what If we use our doubts as motivations to become a better version of ourselves? Obviously not by listening to them or giving them importance, but watching them from a different point of view!
I'm just venting, but I would love a your opinion on that!! I think this is a very very powerful mentality!!
If you want to try with your doubts too, maby it can helps!!
For examples! [TW] (thought->motivation)
_ "maby I don't love him enough" -> "I want to heal to love him even more, let's see how!"
_ "maby we are not right" -> "I would love to be right, what can I do to improve my relationship and becoming even more right"
_ "maby he doesn't love me enough" -> "what can I do to make myself feel more loved (by him and by myself too), I want to do somethingthat turn him on again, that can embrace his and mine qualities!"
_ "will I ever be able to feel emotions again?" -> "I want to feel emotions again. What can I do? I think therapy can help so let's start it!"