I just did a mentality change that is really helping me with my doubts. We all have doubts right (rocd and pure ocd)? So what If we use our doubts as motivations to become a better version of ourselves? Obviously not by listening to them or giving them importance, but watching them from a different point of view! I'm just venting, but I would love a your opinion on that!! I think this is a very very powerful mentality!! If you want to try with your doubts too, maby it can helps!! For examples! [TW] (thought->motivation) _ "maby I don't love him enough" -> "I want to heal to love him even more, let's see how!" _ "maby we are not right" -> "I would love to be right, what can I do to improve my relationship and becoming even more right" _ "maby he doesn't love me enough" -> "what can I do to make myself feel more loved (by him and by myself too), I want to do somethingthat turn him on again, that can embrace his and mine qualities!" _ "will I ever be able to feel emotions again?" -> "I want to feel emotions again. What can I do? I think therapy can help so let's start it!"