People can talk about how inner beauty matters all day. But at the end of the day I care about evolutionary fitness and what makes a woman a woman. I don’t want to be acceptable. I want to be above average not just “fine”.
Body dysmorphia is a really tough thing to deal with, I've dealt with it for the majority of my life. Something that's helped me (which is going to sound kinda dumb tbh lol) is lighting some candles and dancing to hot girl music & really feel it 😂. It helps get more in touch with your body, which is crucial when you're your biggest body hater You can also look at yourself in the mirror and practice just looking at yourself in a neutral way without criticizing your appearance. Throw in some kind words. If you feel like you can't do that, that's okay! But just know that every body is beautiful. You are probably body goals to someone else and you don't know if. Comparison is the thief of joy
Above average is being beautiful on the inside. Being typical and unoriginal is to just be concerned about one’s looks. My dad for example was a good looking guy but a hideous worthless waste of life on the inside and now he looks like a bloodhound that got his face caught in a vacuum. You have the strength to be ORIGINAL. Be beautiful on the outside AND the in. If you’re lacking on the inside your outer beauty won’t matter
Try some daily affirmations!