OCDBoy55
- Date posted
- 6y
IannIann
- Date posted
- 6y
Exactly why I haven’t masturbated in days
NicaNica
- Date posted
- 6y
Exactly right! But don’t stop doing it. I’ve had several people on here advise me to stay active in your sexuality or else you’ll stop being sexual entirely, and THAT is hard to reverse.
IannIann
- Date posted
- 6y
I think if you masturbate frequently that can lower sexual drive. That happens for me at least. And since I get intrusive thoughts while masturbating, when I’m done doing it the thoughts come in 100 times tougher. So idk about masturbation really.
NicaNica
- Date posted
- 6y
You actually have a higher sex drive if you masturbate frequently because your hormones build to a certain level, especially for guys due to testosterone.
JM1998JM1998
- Date posted
- 6y
I understand, I just think breaks are a must. My thoughts want to pop up during, especially after
SquidgerySquidgery
- Date posted
- 6y
I used to have (still do) intrusive thoughts about my partner sleeping with men after she cheated on me. I found it really upsetting and disturbing. But others are right - continue masturbating despite the thoughts, but as a way to show love for yourself rather than as a compulsion or you're bored or whatever. Focusing on the physical sensations rather than my thoughts has also been really helpful for me, as I found that I had way more intrusive thoughts when I was watching porn or something.
SquidgerySquidgery
- Date posted
- 6y
I used to have (still do) intrusive thoughts about my partner sleeping with men after she cheated on me. I found it really upsetting and disturbing. But others are right - continue masturbating despite the thoughts, but as a way to show love for yourself rather than as a compulsion or you're bored or whatever. Focusing on the physical sensations rather than my thoughts has also been really helpful for me, as I found that I had way more intrusive thoughts when I was watching porn or something.
RebeccaxRebeccax
- Date posted
- 6y
Me: rub rub rub rub rub..poke.. rub My brain: duck with a huge willy
JM1998JM1998
- Date posted
- 6y
Yeah I need to stop doing it.
NicaNica
- Date posted
- 6y
Your intrusive thoughts hit you harder because you’re pushing through them/exposing yourself to them and your brain doesn’t like you doing that. I’m dealing with it too.
IannIann
- Date posted
- 6y
I didn’t think about it that way. But then again I don’t get in the mood to masturbate as often as I used to before the intrusive thoughts made their way into my life.
NicaNica
- Date posted
- 6y
I cries the last time I masturbated because I felt guilty about not having sex with my boyfriend AND POCD thoughts. It’s so annoying... but my boyfriend heard me crying and came in to be with me and then we masturbated together, so by the end it was fine.
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Anonymous
- Date posted
- 11w
Is this common?
So whenever I'm tired or zoned out, I realize I tend to not process my intrusive thoughts nearly as quickly or as much as I'd like and whenever I get those types of thoughts, they're often accompanied with "pleasurable" feelings which worries me because these are intrusive thoughts! It feels like I genuinely just let the thoughts happen and I enjoyed it, I'm freaking out!
Anonymousssssss
- Date posted
- 11w
Idk how to get over this
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Fcukocd
- Date posted
- 10w
I need to know if I’m alone
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