That’s definitely not the nicest thing to hear, I’d be in tears too. Your feelings are completely valid, that must be awful to hear, and you’re allowed to be upset because of it
I’m literally crying 😭
My eyes are red right now
Block that friend. Don’t ever speak to them again. Don’t respond. Literally act like she doesn’t exist.
How would you feel please I don’t want to feel like I’m overreacting
@Peridottttt I’d be pissed off and I would block them and never talk to them again
@Bookworm91 What if she apologize
@Peridottttt Doesn’t matter. That kind of viciousness isn’t something you can apologize for. That is actually how she feels about you and it wouldn’t be smart to ever be her friend agaib
@Bookworm91 I’m usually very forgiving maybe she had a bad day and didn’t mean it
@Bookworm91 But I do see your point across
@Peridottttt Ok forgiving is good but not to the point where you have people like her in your life. Her bad day absolutely does not matter. She has no right to talk to you like that
That’s messed up... that’s not something a friend should ever say and I seriously hate the fact that this person said that...
How would you feel 😭😭😭
@Peridottttt I would feel betrayed, and hurt...
@POCD/RealEventOCD How hurt tho from 1-10
@Peridottttt A solid 9
I would feel very hurt your feelings are 100% valid and I am so sorry they said that and you don’t deserve it please be kind to yourself remeber to take deep breaths and watch something happy to take your mind off things
I’m already hurt because the hotline I just got off only gave me 5 mins to talk and left the chat
@Peridottttt I’m so sorry I know it’s really tough right now but hang in there it’s going to be okay. It may be hard to reach somebody now due to the holidays but know that we are here for you. I would try the hotline again tomorrow maybe tomorrow will be easier. I hope you feel better
@Bananaclip I tried many hotlines and last night that one was my last straw they should’ve checked up on me but they just ended the chat as if I was a budern, they didn’t even really help they were like “you can find some ways to cope like coloring” that doesn’t help the problem at all.
I’m really sorry she said that to you. That’s so so awful. I believe you should forgive her no matter what. Forgiveness can be hard, but it’s the right thing to do and it’s not healthy to hold on to pain and anger. But that doesn’t mean you automatically have to trust that she won’t hurt you this way again.