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Just a reminder that you are and so worthy of love!
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Thanks. Its difficult to understand and accept this
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But I am finding trouble to find someone to chat. And when I found someone I keep wishing the person go away. Its like I feel like a duty to mantain the talk and this mess me up
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There is a difference between being lonely and alone. If you’re alone, take it as a time to heal. You are the person you will be with FOREVER! (being alone can feel like an all time thing or never ending) Use this time you are alone and turn it into a time to reflect and try to be able to enjoy life. Being lonely is okay too. It happens even when you aren’t alone it is a common feeling with OCD. Especially if it feels like you try for everyone but it feels nobody tries for you. I have always put shame on myself for having no friends, but I heard a YouTuber explain that being alone can be positive. You should not date unless you can love yourself first! Being alone and lonely are fng horrible feelings. You do not need another person to be happy. If you spend all of the time you have alone worrying about being alone, it could be a cycle. Focus on yourself until you are ready to be out there!
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I understand that, you most certainly aren’t alone and even if that’s something that is hard to believe I hope that one day you’ll be able to realize that no matter what you’re going through, you’re never alone. When we are feeling this way it’s normal to have a low sex drive. If you ever need to talk I’m here, and so is the NOCD community!!
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I didnt even do anything, closed my browser. I wish I could make friends in real life or on the web, but Idk how to do it.
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@Heello What are some of your hobbies?:) also, do you have a job that may help you make friends?
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@Anonymous most of my hobbies are on my pc and some other like playing guitar or keyboard. I dont have a job
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@Heello Oh nice:)) what are some games that you play? My boyfriend has found “teams” through some of the games he plays. I’m sure you could also find discord groups to join:)
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I am a girl's in my twenties. I got diagnosed with OCD last year. I have a boyfriend, sadly we're long distance right now. I've liked boys all my life. It's very difficult to sustain intimacy in a long distance relationship. Sometimes I have intimate calls with my boyfriend and it's nice. Other times, however, (and I am not proud of it) I do watch porn. I started watching porn when I was 16. I've tried to quit it many times but every couple of weeks I go back to it. And as everyone knows, one of the MANY problems with it is that your brain will always ask for more. More taboo things, more explicit things. I have a daddy kink. I've roleplayed with my boyfriend and watched porn of this kink. Now, the thing is that my brain keeps telling me that I won't orgasm unless I think of little girls being ab*sed. I've never looked for that on the internet, I never want to either. I am under EXTREME DISTRESS, because what my brain tells me feels SO REAL, and it's like my pleasure gets blocked and that contributes to me thinking my brain must be right. It wasn't like this before. I want to go back. I'm scared it will be like this forever now.
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Like always, porn has been a problem and I spent the entire night watching it. I feel tons of shame for things I've seen without intending to see, and I feel shame about struggling with it altogether. I kind of feel like crying but not that much. I'm just trying my absolute best to practice acceptance and not judge myself. I'm just trying to see this as a problem that others struggle with as well and not put myself down for it over and over again. I know that doesn't help in the long run, but it's hard not to feel that way.
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I don’t know what to do anymore I made a friend recently in college and was texting her the other night and she mentioned she was doing her nails and I said nice and asked her if I could see. Because I was curious about what she did to them this time around and since then she has not responded to me I apologized to her saying I’m sorry if it bothered her but still nothing. Some of my friends just don’t answer me anymore I feel like I’m a burden of the ones who do still talk me I’m so done with it all. I’m tired of trying to find love as well I feel nothing to it anymore it’s only left me with disappointment and sadness I feel like I’m an unlovable husk of a person and that I would only ever be a bother I cannot fathom the idea of someone loving ME I just can’t I feel like it’s impossible I feel like everything about me bothers people to the point where I think is it even something I should try to achieve anymore. I should honestly block myself from trying to make new friends and relationships I’m so so tired of it. I feel unappreciated and annoyed that I am the one that has to try to keep up any sort of relationship because if I don’t reach out they never will reach out to me the reason I know this is because it’s been proven time after time since middle school that I am nothing to these people and I might as well no longer try. I don’t know what to do anymore I feel like I’m going to be all alone for the rest of my life I’m just so lonely now.
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