Heello
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- 3y
AnonymousAnonymous
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- 3y
Just a reminder that you are and so worthy of love!
HeelloHeello
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- 3y
Thanks. Its difficult to understand and accept this
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HeelloHeello
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- 3y
But I am finding trouble to find someone to chat. And when I found someone I keep wishing the person go away. Its like I feel like a duty to mantain the talk and this mess me up
dieinaholeocdurabuttdieinaholeoc...
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- 3y
There is a difference between being lonely and alone. If you’re alone, take it as a time to heal. You are the person you will be with FOREVER! (being alone can feel like an all time thing or never ending) Use this time you are alone and turn it into a time to reflect and try to be able to enjoy life. Being lonely is okay too. It happens even when you aren’t alone it is a common feeling with OCD. Especially if it feels like you try for everyone but it feels nobody tries for you. I have always put shame on myself for having no friends, but I heard a YouTuber explain that being alone can be positive. You should not date unless you can love yourself first! Being alone and lonely are fng horrible feelings. You do not need another person to be happy. If you spend all of the time you have alone worrying about being alone, it could be a cycle. Focus on yourself until you are ready to be out there!
linds💕linds💕
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- 3y
I understand that, you most certainly aren’t alone and even if that’s something that is hard to believe I hope that one day you’ll be able to realize that no matter what you’re going through, you’re never alone. When we are feeling this way it’s normal to have a low sex drive. If you ever need to talk I’m here, and so is the NOCD community!!
HeelloHeello
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I didnt even do anything, closed my browser. I wish I could make friends in real life or on the web, but Idk how to do it.
linds💕linds💕
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- 3y
@Heello What are some of your hobbies?:) also, do you have a job that may help you make friends?
HeelloHeello
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@Anonymous most of my hobbies are on my pc and some other like playing guitar or keyboard. I dont have a job
linds💕linds💕
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@Heello Oh nice:)) what are some games that you play? My boyfriend has found “teams” through some of the games he plays. I’m sure you could also find discord groups to join:)
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