Can anyone with a vagina help? It's my birthday. I went to go to the toilet and my underwar was wet. It soaked through to both sides. And it was the whole area of the underwear. I feel I would have felt if I peed myself..I did need the toilet but I held it in talking to a friend. I just changed my underwear and trousers and got into bed. But I feel so gross. Its my 20th...i wanted to start this decade off right but I just want to cry and have a shower and wash everything. Could it just be discharge? I've googled it and I've seen nothing on discharge like that. I feel so gross. Do I need to wash everything tomorrow morning? I'm having friends over. I don't know what to do... this is only my luck. I wanted to start this birthday off well. But I did compulsions smelling the underwear and feeling my old pajama trousers to see if they got wet.. Why am I so gross ... :(

Thank you..I'll try sit with the anxiety that it could just be discharge. I'm just scared about having people over in my room if its not. I don't want them to lie on it ...

@🌸 I actually just seen a video about a gynecologist talking about normal discharge and she stated if it is clear or white then it’s healthy normal discharges

Thank you ❤..I'm just currently really anxious on how I should clean my bed tomorrow. I don't know what I touched if it was pee..I have so much cushions and teddies on my bed ..I'm not sure what to do.

@🌸 If anything, just wash your sheets and blankets if you want :) but I think everything else is okay!

@Asdr1 Okay thank you! 😊

YES! Specially around ovulation time

But can it be like a lot? And soak the underwear? Out of compulsion I smelled it and it doesn't smell really of anything but I heard pee doesn't really have a smell either...

@🌸 Yes it can. But I realized after posting that I gave you reassurance. It may be pee, it may be discharge. Either way it means nothing aboht you. Just try and carry on without knowing for sure. You got this!

@run99 Thank you I'll try <3

Oh why?