Reptile
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- 6y
ranchdoritos88ranchdoritos88
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- 6y
Here's what I believe. We are all sexual beings. God made us that way. Sexuality runs on a spectrum. It isn't black and white. I'm a female and I've been turned on by watching the girl do sexual things in straight porn. It is the content that turns me on. Does that make me bi? I don't think so. I don't have to identify as bi if I don't feel it describes me. This has helped me so much with my HOCD.
ranchdoritos88ranchdoritos88
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- 6y
Yes I do. I get all kinds of thoughts and feelings. It's a part of being human.
ranchdoritos88ranchdoritos88
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- 6y
It doesn't mean anything even if you've had thoughts before HOCD. We are sexual beings.
ReptileReptile
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- 6y
I've used Google as a compulsion, and I've looked up articles on this. And a few people said if you masturbate and have these thoughts that means your gay. And I can't stop worrying about that now
SlayingtheocdragonSlayingtheoc...
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- 6y
Yeah I think a big problem with HOCD is that tired old trope of “does that make me gay”...like it’s a magic button that gets pressed...you can literally fuck a guy and not be gay, like I have friends who’ve kissed men, realized that it wasn’t bad but they slightly prefer women so they don’t identify as gay...like intrusive thoughts about dudes when you masterbate doesn’t necessarily mean you’re gay but it doesn’t necessarily mean anything...you can be a straight guy who kind of wants to blow a dude for some weird reason...sexuality is a weird crazy spectrum, don’t let it bother you, the worst case scenario here isn’t really that bad
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