I get so anxious when I hear “if it’s the right relationship you will know” and I’m scared I am in denial. “If they don’t make you happy leave” well I’m not always happy I’m in extreme anxiety mode most of the time .But I love him. What if I am just in denial, delaying the inevitable? I feel so guilty .

compulsion5000

Date posted: 3y

If you get relationship advice from boomers. Just remember their divorce rate is like 40% lol... A lot of that stuff is just meaningless truism. I would ignore it.

Tillyyyx

Date posted: 3y

So how do you know you love someone ? I’m so confused ?

compulsion5000

Date posted: 3y

@Tillyyyx You said you love him. Trust yourself. Tjats what intuition is for. I know ocd isn't big on self trust..sometimes I fight a compulsion by saying to myself :I trust myself that I did it right the first time" maybe you can say "I trust my intuition on love"

Tillyyyx

Date posted: 3y

@compulsion5000 It’s just sometimes my intuition feels right and sometimes wrong but thanks xx

somedude

Date posted: 3y

@Tillyyyx - It ain't called "The Doubting Disease" for no reason

Tillyyyx

Date posted: 3y

@somedude Lol trueee

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