I get so anxious when I hear “if it’s the right relationship you will know” and I’m scared I am in denial. “If they don’t make you happy leave” well I’m not always happy I’m in extreme anxiety mode most of the time .But I love him. What if I am just in denial, delaying the inevitable? I feel so guilty .

If you get relationship advice from boomers. Just remember their divorce rate is like 40% lol... A lot of that stuff is just meaningless truism. I would ignore it.

So how do you know you love someone ? I’m so confused ?

@Tillyyyx You said you love him. Trust yourself. Tjats what intuition is for. I know ocd isn't big on self trust..sometimes I fight a compulsion by saying to myself :I trust myself that I did it right the first time" maybe you can say "I trust my intuition on love"

@compulsion5000 It’s just sometimes my intuition feels right and sometimes wrong but thanks xx

@Tillyyyx - It ain't called "The Doubting Disease" for no reason

@somedude Lol trueee

By 'it's the right relationship you'll know' I think what people mean is that you feel at ease with that person, you like being with them, you can see the future with them. I am told by my parents that relationships aren't all about 'feelings', because then they'd all fall apart. It's about the fact that you decided to be with the person you love, and you stay with them, even through the hard times, it's about the commitment too.