The key is using the experience to grow when you apply what you’re learning to your future choices and actions you move forward not backwards you become stronger and wiser it’s not easy but it’s worth it at the end. It’s all about accepting the reality of what is you cannot find peace by avoiding life life spins with unexpected changes so instead of avoiding it take every change and experience as a challenge for growth. Either it will give you what you want or it will teach you what your next step is. Remember finding peace in life doesn’t mean to be in a place where there is no noise no challenges and no hard work it means to be in the midsts of those things while remaining calm in heart life is too short to spend at war with yourself. Letting go of needless expectations is your first step to happiness Open the mind to acceptance of your OCD and you will be surprised about your growth In every situation you choose your attitude be determined to be positive chase happiness over hurt. You are not who you used to be and that’s OK you’ve been hurt you gone through numerous of ups and downs and that has made you who you are today over the years so many things has happened things have changed your perspective taught you lessons and forced your spirit to grow . Every day we change and we grow but remember we’re still the same human beings just a little more stronger now than we were before 🌸🌸🌸🌸