Are you the one with OCD & this Is something you feel you are fearful about him?
Yes I have OCD. Yes I'm fearful he has become too into his games. He is on for the whole day everyday if he is not working. And goes on after work. There is not really too much time he is off.
@Anonymous I can relate to the fixation on our partner & if he is doing something wrong or not to what we think
@Stefanie86 Yea it's hard. Like I don't want to fix him but it seems it comes up like that.
@Anonymous Has your therapist mentioned any ideas on how to help this?
@Stefanie86 I haven't seen her just yet on it. But I went to support group and they mentioned validating my feelings and doing things that could help his maybe "addiction" but also knowing I can't control his actions
@Anonymous I see what you mean. I have the same issue with control & my partner. He is also an Alcoholic. He doesn’t drink but relapsed in the summer. I got thru it.
@Stefanie86 I'm glad you got through it! Yea it's hard when you want the best for them but also it's a control thing. Balancing caring and controlling is difficult