So I think my boyfriend has an issue with extreme gaming that it's affecting him. I don't know if this is my OCD telling me this but I feel like I want to tell him and I even looked up a recovery treatment for obsessive gaming. I don't know if that's too much.

Are you the one with OCD & this Is something you feel you are fearful about him?

Yes I have OCD. Yes I'm fearful he has become too into his games. He is on for the whole day everyday if he is not working. And goes on after work. There is not really too much time he is off.

@Anonymous I can relate to the fixation on our partner & if he is doing something wrong or not to what we think

@Stefanie86 Yea it's hard. Like I don't want to fix him but it seems it comes up like that.

@Anonymous Has your therapist mentioned any ideas on how to help this?

@Stefanie86 I haven't seen her just yet on it. But I went to support group and they mentioned validating my feelings and doing things that could help his maybe "addiction" but also knowing I can't control his actions

@Anonymous I see what you mean. I have the same issue with control & my partner. He is also an Alcoholic. He doesn’t drink but relapsed in the summer. I got thru it.