I need confort words/advice. My friend likes a guy and she constantly talks about him and im going crazy. Like literally i cant anymore she mentions him everytime we talk and she doesnt like the fact that she likes him. And i dont want to be mean to her. Its just that i dont understand why she talks about him so much. And also i wish that my life was as simple as her sometimes because having ocd is a fucking nightmare and a constant battle against my own mind. And i wish my biggest problem was liking a guy. But i really love my friend so thats why im venting here and im just feeling annoyed rn because i feel like her life is so much better than mine, she has a lot of friends and a super nice family. And im really envious and jealous. Ik its bad but i cant help it. And now they're together as a couple and i gonna keep having to hear stuff about this dude. I just feel like I have so much anger inside of me and im so angry all the time. Like i wish I could just scream

i’m sorry, this probably makes you feel so lonely. i don’t mean this sarcastically- it’s good for her that the thing on the forefront of her mind is this guy and this new, budding, exciting relationship. that’s lovely for her:) At the same time, it must be so frustrating that the bulk of yalls time together is spent on how she feels about this new thing (it feels really big and important to her right now ig). What do you think about telling her about your mental state right now? And maybe about how isolating it feels. You have such a right to be angry. This is fucking infuriating. You sound young. You both should be talking about boys and other light-hearted things. You shouldn’t be left alone to have to navigate these difficult and heavy feelings. It’s so infuriating when no one has any idea of how difficult things are and then they keep requiring the same energy from you in life. We know it’s our job to communicate, but it’s still frustrating. I’m sorry, friend. If you think she would take it okay, maybe try to mention that sometimes you get a bit tired of talking about him. Remind her that you’re happy that she’s happy! But that things have been feeling really heavy for you recently and you’re having a hard time getting through it. idk, what do you think?