Christian /Future

God is for you. He has plans to prosper you and to give you a hope and a future. He wants to have a loving relationship with you. If you don’t want to be single, tell Him. He loves to hear all of our thoughts and even worries. He is waiting to listen to you without judgement. His heart cares for what’s on our hearts because He loves us. He will listen to you.

We all have free will, it’s up to us to decide what we want to do with it. Here are some verses I appreciate (Bible translations may differ, but the message stays the same) Galatians 6:4,5,7 “ let each one examine his own actions, and then he will have cause for rejoicing in regard to himself alone, and not in comparison with the other person. 5 For each one will carry his own load. 7[…] For whatever a person is sowing, this he will also reap”. Our life course depends on the choices we make​, and in this case of relationships, it’s up to you whether or not you’d like to be single or not. If you choose to be single and not reach out to others to attempt a relationship, then it’s logical that you would “reap” singleness. But if you really want to be in a relationship, then that is something that will be determined by the effort you make to look for a relationship. You got this!

Hey Jana we can’t be scared of the future?

I’m not a christian anymore, but when i was i believed that there was someone painting out life paths, but WE always had free will and a choice in everything, Your life and Your story is not written yet, you’re on your way to write it.

hi! christian here!! i believe that if you have the desire to be with someone in the future and that is what you want, then that is God-given! a lot of people who are single forever have wanted that and chosen that! don’t be scared/worried about it. His timing is perfect. Jesus loves you so much and will never disappoint you if you trust Him ☺️

Girl I had the same fear for a LONG time and I was worried I’d be destined to loneliness for the rest of my life.sometimes I still do. Some people are built different and can function without a partner and they often find that singleness brings them closer to God and makes them feel more fulfilled. But for many such as myself that makes me feel hopeless and lonely. I also think that God designed us for community and also know what is best for each person and how he designed them. If being single makes you feel lonely or discouraged Then that isn’t what God wants for you either. I agree with the comments that you should talk to God and tell him your fears and discomfort. Also ask yourself how would it make you feel to be single for the rest of life? God wants you to acknowledge your feelings he gave them to you for a reason to indicate the different areas in your life that need healing and peace. God is a God of peace.

God’s plans are bigger than we expect them to be.

It’s just waiting patiently

And never losing hope

Thank you :)

No. God is something incomprehensible to human mind. God doesn't lead your every action as a human being, God just strives for balance. All the controlling is done by religion and religion is made by humans with wish to control. Main reason why I'm an agnostic.The church could say anything they want that counts and then say it was ordered by God. I say bullshit. Just to be clear, this is solely my opinion and i respect your choice to be religious. I by no means wish to forcefully change your view on this matter. I'm just offering you a different view on it.

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