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It’s not really a “spectrum”. All ocd has the same roots. ‘Distressing thought or urge’, followed by a ‘calming compulsion that dispels the urge or counteracts the thought’. This thought or urge is sometimes completely irrational or simply way overblown. So for example someone could believe that the number 8 means something very very bad, so when they see it (Distressing thought-‘oh no here’s the bad omen’) they need to neutralize it (a ritual like saying ‘good’ as many times as it takes until it feels right). Doing this compulsions reaffirms to your brain that the number 8 is indeed a bad thing. This is the same as someone who has a distressing thought involving harming a child. They have the thought, and then immediately do things like avoid the kid or hide knives or sharp objects that they think they could one day loose control and use to harm a kid. They feel better after getting rid of the ‘weapons’, which reaffirms to their brain that the thought they had is indeed cause for action and evidence that they are dangerous- which is simply not the case. OCD doesn’t leave territory unmarked, and there isn’t anything that isn’t within its grasp. If it matters to you, if it’s something you’re afraid of, if you have any stake in it- ocd will latch onto it. It appears differently for people too, because we all have different fears and different ways our lives would be affected by our fears. There are very common “themes” however, which mainly are of a sexual nature, involve health, or religious/existential ideas. And the reasons why it is so debilitating is because it feeds off of doubt and guilt.
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like leah said above me, basically it can be anything, but ocd is only able to latch onto stuff that really matters to you. thats why there are a good amount of “common” themes, mainly because those are common values people have, like family, relationships (love), good health, religion, sexuality, morals and so forth. but basically, anything that matters to you can spin itself into intrusive thoughts and obsessions
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- 6y
Go to ocdonline.com click on articles and click on choice it really breaks it down .
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Ok thanks guys
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- 13w
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- 5w
hi everyone!! so idk if anyone will see this, but i guess i have a lot of questions. i got diagnosed with OCD about 2 years ago or so but i’ve had it for as long as i can remember. my obsessions and compulsions root from my worst fears and what i’m most afraid of losing. when i was really young, it started with doing things or else the devil was going to come and get me, because that was my worst fear at that time. i have to count, i usually do things in pairs of 3. i HATE even numbers. only odd numbers. sometimes i spend a lot of time redoing something over and over and over again just until it feels “right.” i have super bad sensory issues. i cut the tags out of everything i own, my nails have to be short or else i will dig them into my skin until i bleed because it just doesn’t feel right. at school i used to be late to class because i would be at my locker turning the combination either 3, 7, 9, 11, or 13 times. it just depended on what felt right. before i would go to bed i would have to sit up and check the door 3 , 7, 9… etc. one time i had to check 27 times before i could go to sleep. i’m actually scared of getting things i want in life because my OCD will hold it against me. “you better do this or else you’ll lose this.” the more happy i am in life, the worse my OCD gets. it prays on my worst fears. if there is even something slightly wrong with my clothes: a tiny thread hanging lose, a bad memory attached, i will never wear it again. there’s one thing im sorta embarrassed to say but it’s one of my worst ones. basically: peeing. at night, i have to continuously go to the bathroom over and over again because i feel like my bladder isn’t completely empty. i will keep telling myself “it’s full, i have to go.” even when i just peed 5 minutes ago. and due to this, it causes a lot of wiping. i have wiped myself raw to the point i bleed a lot. it’s embarrassing, but i can’t stop. it never feels clean enough. my hair is never perfect enough. my clothes are ugly. i think i mostly struggle with perfectionism OCD. but is that it? i also feel like if i don’t do certain things, it will cause something bad to happen to my family or friends. like i have magical control over events. i don’t know. can someone help please?
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