Someone please help
I’ve known this guy for 4 years and we’re about to start dating. I have severe POCD and had an intrusive thought last night that is making me question everything. He said on the phone before sending a picture of this guy that he didn’t like when he was younger, “and the problem with him is…. nevermind”. I immediately thought “wait oh my god what if he was gonna say he’s attractive and now I’m gonna be dating a pedophile?”. It doesn’t make any sense and I don’t think that’s what he was gonna say. Is it normal in ROCD to have intrusive thoughts about your partner being a bad person? How do I deal with it?