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I just had a "dont you wish she would talk to you??" In a checkout line at the store. I was like ???? N...o? Sometimes my intrusives come in first person which frightens me a little but then i remember intrusive thoughts come in all shapes, sizes and types so i just roll my eyes and go "whatever"
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Brain fog sometimes can mean Depression or symptoms of depersonalization/derelazaion don't worry they are just symptoms
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yeah, im aware, it sucks veryyyyy bad
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yeah me too!!
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Just go with the flow! I just literally agree. Not easy, I unconsciously fight the thoughts with reasons against it but when I go with it it's much easier.
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We all have celebrity crushes, that's SO normal.
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Oh, look. Don't run from it it's all I can say. I have hocd and rocd themes. I'm married I had a huge note in my closet saying I might be a lesbian and maybe I should get a divorce. Hocd is not as strong but I can say 100% I don't run from the hocd thoughts the way I do with Rocd so they are almost non-existant. Be creative, say 'oh, maybe I even like aria too, or cersei, all of the women in GOT. Maybe it's possible, and then keep enjoying the episode. Agree with the thought. I know it's hard. Especially if you are super scared of it like I do of being in the wrong relationship forever or fighting for a relationship when I should just leave. Trust me. It does get better, but face the thoughts head on.
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They can vary. Mine are anywhere from first person to second person. They can flip flop or only be one. Theres no "right" way to have an intrusive thought really
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I won’t explain this again if you’ve been or going through it you know what I’m talking about. I felt good about women about an hour ago and now I’m worrying again I’m anxious and the groinals are back and it’s so annoying because I can’t study. And honestly I’m so sick and tired of this. I’ve been a girl crazy my whole life and my mind randomly decides “well what if you are gay” like bro. I’ve never seen a guy that way and in general IT WAS NEVER SOMETHING I THOUGHT ABOUT OR ASSOCIATED MYSELF WITH. IVE NEVER FELT ANYTHING TOWARDS A MAN AND NOW IT FEELS LIKE IT RANDOMLY FLIPPED. I CANT DO THIS BRO. WHY WOULD THIS HAPPEN IVE BEEN GOING THROUGH INSECURITIES ALREADY AND MY ATTRACTION WAS THE ONLY REAL THING I HAD LEFT AND NOW THIS. HOW MUCH DO YOU HATE ME GOD.
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hiya, it's been a while because i was finally getting better.im a straight girl and i've been dealing with so-ocd severely for about a year now. i originally used to obsess over this one girl at my school and it was so bad and literally interfered with everything. after lots and lots of patience and avoiding compulsions i got over that false attraction and i felt myself be okay again. this year i have developed another attachment to someone, and im struggling all over again. also i thought id share that i experience friend crushes which is where you just wanna become closer to someone if that makes sense. anyways originally i was experiencing that and then my ocd keeps telling me what if its more and what if i am gay? i've completely forgot what it felt like but the thing is, it feels so real!!! i feel excited to see her and wanna be around her but everytime i freak out and obsess about the thought i could like her as more then a friend. deep down i know i don't because i don't feel any romantic feelings and i shouldn't feel such negative emotions and anxiety if it wasn't my ocd. i am so sorry for the rant but im back to square one. 😭😭
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I was on yt and I saw this kid whom I thought was pretty, but then I got a weird thought, and I got worried, I started physically panicking and runnin around, telling myself it wasn’t really attraction, idk if I’m lying to myself or not, I tried using AI for reassurance, but it didn’t work, this is the first time I spiraled since like 2 months… I can’t stand it I’m scared… idk it feels like I’m lying to myself, idk if it was sexual attraction or not, I thought she was pretty idk if it means something, I keeep rewatching the video to test myself. Please help me please.
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