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I cannot give you advice, but I hope you get better soon
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I don't want to reassure you but offer advice to just shower yourself with compassion. Whenever I get ocd guilt I like to take a step back and give myself kindness. We are all human afterall.
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I'm a preschool teacher and sometimes things like these will happen. If your director isn't upset with you then you're fine. You know who are. You're a good person especially to work with these little ones. Everyday we learn something either what not to do or what worka for us and what to continue doing. Learn from this. Just continue having good work ethic/you're strong. With time you'll realize this and feel better and this will be past you.
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This is the first job I''ve had since my diagnosis. I've been there for a yeat
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The Fact you feel horrible means your caring so much about those kids safety ,and not beauase of your boss. Because you didn’t get in trouble because your a caring person but remember to care for yourself some and not be brutally guilty for no reason. I know this doesn’t make the guilt vanish, sometimes I lay awake thinking about small and big mistakes but mostly small things and they sometimes feel like they are eating me away but if you feel guilty it means you have learned.it is so easy to over think things.I’ve heard stories of careless babysitting you probably aren’t ever going to be like that.
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Please any advice will help me. Again the child is completely ok. Nothing happened to her whatsoever. I just want the guilt to go away
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Do you work at a preschool?
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Yes
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Please comment. Just say if follows along the OCD pattern or not. I don't need reassurance per se! My daughter was laying across me and every time I breathed a certain way I was getting a groinal sensation. I kept breathing like that anyways (ugh idk why), and then my mind told me I had hurt/a**aulted her that I might as well do something else to hurt because what's more. So idk why or what overcame me other than the thought of doing it because my mind told me I had hurt her already ("my mind literally made me question what to do and I guess the only thing I could come up with was using my elbow) and causing another feeling but it came across my mind to elbow her, and I elbowed her crotch or side/thigh area. Which caused another very unwanted groinal sensation. Then I began FREAKING smooth out. And I've been stressing since. I feel like as a mom I don't deserve to be hers anymore. Idk what overcame me but my therapist says it's all OCD. I was doing SO well! Is this really OCD? This has all caused me a great amount of anxiety. I feel like a terrible person and mom. I just need help knowing if this is OCD. Not wanting reassurance. Just wanting to know if this lines up with the POCD I've been diagnosed with by my current therapist.
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So I dealt with something a couple weeks ago that's caused me DEBILITATING anxiety. I just want to know if this follows the OCD pattern. I talked with my therapist and she confused me. Just say if follows along the OCD pattern or not. I don't need reassurance per se! My daughter was laying across me and every time I breathed a certain way I was getting a groinal sensation. I kept breathing like that anyways (ugh idk why), and then my mind told me I had hurt her that I might as well do something else to hurt because what's more. So idk why or what overcame me other than the thought of doing it because my mind told me I had hurt her already ("my mind literally made me question what to do and I guess the only thing I could come up with was using my elbow) and causing another feeling but it came across my mind to elbow her, and I elbowed her crotch or side/thigh area. Which caused another very unwanted groinal sensation. Then I began FREAKING smooth out. And I've been stressing since. I feel like as a mom I don't deserve to be hers anymore. I was doing SO well! Is this really the POCD I was diagnosed with?
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Hey everyone, I’m going through something that really shook me up and triggered my OCD. Today I was talking to my mom about how people in our family have been talking badly about my cousin, who’s 17 and pregnant. I haven’t told my cousin anything about what they’re saying, because I don’t want to add any stress to her. I’ve honestly tried to protect her from all the drama. But then my mom told me to be careful about what I say to her, because she’s really worried my cousin could have a miscarriage from stress. She said if that happened and I had told my cousin anything, it would be my fault. I think my mom meant it out of concern, like she just wants to protect my cousin—but the way she said it came off as really harsh and it hurt me. Especially because I’ve never said anything to my cousin and I would never want to cause her any stress. Now my OCD is grabbing onto that fear. Even though I haven’t done anything wrong, it’s making me feel like, “What if something happens to the baby and it somehow ends up being your fault?” Logically, I know that doesn’t make sense. But the guilt and anxiety feel so real, and it’s hard to shake.
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