Rhys34
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- 3y
I’m finally telling her
Tomorrow I’m finally going to tell my best friend that I’m head over heels for her. I’m so scared and cautiously optimistic. How do you think it will go?
Bd2Bd2
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- 3y
Lol, 95% sure she does.
Rhys34Rhys34
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- 3y
I hope so I feel like it will make it easier to tell her
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Rhys34Rhys34
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- 3y
I will definitely keep you guys updated. The support from all of you blew my mind. She’s made so many comments about “us” and even the other day she referred to her sister as MY sister in law. Hope it goes well tonight.
Rhys34Rhys34
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- 3y
Do you think it’s possible she likes me back? I’ve talk to my brother so much about this and he thinks she loves me too.
kctgkctg
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- 3y
@Rhys34 As a girl I’ve had guy friends, and I wouldn’t have talked to them like this if I didn’t like them so maybe she does like you back😊
Rhys34Rhys34
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- 3y
@kctg I hope you’re right. Coming from a girl that give me hope. As a dude trying to figure out a woman, it’s like mission impossible
kctgkctg
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- 3y
@Rhys34 Haha I understand 😋
Rhys34Rhys34
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- 3y
⭐️UPDATE⭐️ I started it off by telling her my mother touched on a subject only my aunt and brother know about today in an argument. It regard to the feeling I have for someone. Later one at lunch I let her read a text I sent to my aunt where my mother was talking about me having or wanting to build a relationship with my best friend. My best friend said we’ve talked about us being in a relationship. I love you but I don’t want to be in a relationship with you because for one, I haven’t had a person in my life that was simply my BEST friend. Everyone who’s been my best friend has also been my lover. And with that type of relationship something happens and you got get angry and want to kill each other and I don’t want to ever have that feeling towards you. You’re my best friend and I don’t ever want to feel like that about you because you’re my BEST friend. I agree and didnt act any different because I knew with what I had said earlier and what she read she figured out that I have feelings for her and she’s probably know for a while tbh. She’s incredibly persecptive. I just left it at that. I agreed with what she said because even she said “I said I would never abandon you and I meant that but the quickest way to drive me away is if we had a relationship.” She know I’ve got abandonment issues. No woman other than my grandmother who I call mom, has stayed in my life longer than 3 months. But she isn’t acting any different and I don’t want it to effect our friendship. I really don’t think it will, but at the same time I never came straight out and said I have feelings for you, but I also feel the need to tell her I don’t want to let everything that was said impact our friendship. Is that just the ocd talking? Because I know she knows I like her. But neither one of us are acting differently. I don’t feel a weird vibe it’s just normal.
AnonymousAnonymous
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- 3y
Don’t over think it. Plus this just means that there is still somebody out there that is perfect for you.
Bd2Bd2
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- 3y
I’m sure she already knows! 🙂 Good luck! 👍
Rhys34Rhys34
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- 3y
I kinda hope she’s got some sort of clue/idea.
AnonymousAnonymous
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- 3y
Good luck 🍀
wxynnwxynn
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- 3y
good luck!! u got this
kctgkctg
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- 3y
Good luck! Update please😍
Sophia95Sophia95
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- 3y
Good luck 😃 update us later ❤️
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