How do I know if it’s ocd or if i really want to be trans ?

No you do not have a man's brain. Honestly, men are very different to us. Even gay men are very different. And you literally would have known. There was a documentary on a 3 year old trans girl who tried to cut her penis off because she hated being genetically a boy. You would have tried to do things like that as a young child

It's okay, you're 100% not trans at all. In my opinion, noone is completely female or completely male anyway! So don't worry about feeling a bit manly one day and a bit womanly the next, it's completely normal xx

Trans people are born knowing they're trans xx

Brain scans reveal that they literally have the opposite sex mind set

You'd have been playing football and wishing you had a penis

that makes me worry a little since i can’t remember if i felt like a guy when i was little. i liked to catch animals. now i’m so worried i have a guys mind! i wasn’t overly girly but i loved my body and girls clothes. i worry that my thoughts are somehow guys thoughts

Well just tell her that she literally would have wore boys clothes all the time and would have done things like skipped school and acted poorly because she felt so uncomfortable in a dress etc

She would have hated being called girl from the moment she could talk. Probably would have tried to commit suicide if noone would let her transition when puberty started. Cause most transgenders do attempt suicide when they start developing

oh wow. that’s a relief i guess. i’ll tell her. my biggest issue is how frickin attractive guys can be in media and my mind says i’m jealous. i love their personalities and how charming they are but i would never cover up my breasts or cut my hair. i suppose gender roles frustrate me but i don’t show any signs of being trans. thanks so much!

Some girls even like peeing through a fake penis but they're still women xx

thanks so so much!! it’s frustrating that i get hyper aware of my metacognition and feel like how i my mind thinks a guy would and it’s miserable. i just want to be feminine and me again

Oh okay but I remember when I was younger I did stuff that my brothers did wish was of course boyish but that’s because I wanted to be cool and I had a crush on his friend lol . So I think that be getting to me . But I like my body parts as women and me reading articles on it made me rethink a lot of stuff like if I dislike having a vagina ? I know I never felt that way before . I just want this to stop

You would have thought about chopping your breasts off and things like that

Also maturation would feel extremely extremely weird to you and you'd constantly wish you could do it how the opposite gender can

oh, ok. that’s a relief. i’m a bit worried for my friend who’s going through basically the same thing but doesn’t like her breasts. i’m pretty sure it’s her religion telling her that women’s bodies are sinful and she likes looking pretty and is worried about being trans so actually i guess she’s not. thanks so much though

i am kind of worried that my “definition of a guy” i’ll relate to and end up wanting to be trans though

i’m so sorry, i’m in a crisis right now omg