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Are there any goals or dreams that you guys have had that have been kind of I guess ruined because of OCD?
Are there any goals or dreams that you guys have had that have been kind of I guess ruined because of OCD?
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@OCDSUCKS!! Yeah the idea of someone telling others about my false memory is terrifying. Idk if this will help but I feel if your friend is helping you then maybe he doesnāt dislike you. Of course I donāt know what the interaction between the two of you is like. Also I feel worrying about people finding out and if your friend likes you or not might be OCD (I could be wrong though itās just a thought I had) . But something that Iāve tried to stick into my head is that, āifā isnāt a certainty. Also something else that Iāve tried to kind of learn to do is tell myself, āwho cares if they tellā, I know thatās hard to actually do itās kind of scary to be honest. If someone told my false memory who cares, itās not a for sure thing that happened. Plus too Iām literally a nobody. Iām a number in the population counter. So if people found out I feel theyād literally not care as much as we think they might. You know yourself and thatās all that matters. But also LIVE, your life isnāt worth losing over something that is uncertain. Youāve got this. I get days like that too, today actually was one of those days. But we got this! If we were able to live happily months ago, we can live happily now. Donāt give up! Sending good and happy vibes your way.
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@anonymous1146 There will be better days. Even in the darkest nights there is light. Dancing is really cool! I hope that one day when you feel better you will try again. You deserve a chance to chase your dreams. Donāt let your mind tell you otherwise.
@anonymous1146 Thank you very much! We go this!
Traveling! Iāve always wanted to see other parts of the world but most of the time I can barely leave my house. And donāt get me started on planes lol
@emma18 Whatās a place youād like to visit if you did decide to travel?
iād love to work out more, but it makes it extremely difficult when i have to count every action/ step i take
@iloveespeon Thatās understandable. I wish you the best and hopefully you can get to your goal. You deserve it and Iām sure you will achieve it one day.
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I wanted to go to college/university but I felt like I wouldnāt ever be able to because of how my thoughts constantly distract me. Now Iām in a better place and Iām feeling optimistic about moving forward š¤
@blazed Thatās is so amazing to hear! Iām happy for you! I hope when you do decide to go to school that you get into the school you want.
I changed my major from education to something else so I wouldn't be around kids
@rmsh231 I hope whatever major you chose is something that brings you happiness even if it wasnāt your first choice. I hope all is well with you and school!
@OCDinparadise I graduated with my masters many years ago! And I dodged a bullet not being in education
@rmsh231 Oh wow congrats!
Honestly I feel like I wonāt do good in anything. I havenāt found the motivation to go to college Iām just fixated on the fact of getting enough money to pay the bills. Every relationship I have been in though makes me toxic but they also have toxic things and it makes me wonder if Iām the issue or Iām just being oblivious to manipulation. And then idk what to do and the relationship always ends and because I would always be with the person now that Iām not with someone idk what to do. It feels like Iāve lost my identity yet OCD makes me feel like all the negative things I thought about the person are true and it was never true love. Then I question am I worthy of being loved. I know Iām a lot to deal with. Then I become depressed.
@Pettie You are most definitely worthy of love. You will find where you belong. Iām sure itās waiting for you. Youāll find relief and joy again donāt give up!
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