callistapopp
- Date posted
- 2y ago
NicaNica
- Date posted
- 2y ago
I trust my therapist and the science behind OCD/mental illnesses.
UphamiaUphamia
- Date posted
- 2y ago
It’s hard, it takes a lot of work, but I came to the conclusion that we as humans all have intrusive thoughts, the problem with ocd is we react to it and panic about what the meaning of the thought was and than we obsess and ruminate about why we had it and if we intentionally had it. I realized a lot of people I know can relate to intrusive thoughts I have, but unlike me they understood that our brains just talk and it doesn’t have to mean anything, with ocd it’s really hard to realize that, I’m still working on it but I’ve gotten so much better at practicing acknowledging I had the thought but continuing with whatever I’m doing, and over time you get desensitized to those thoughts and realize they don’t need to take up so much room in your head or heart
blazedblazed
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 2y ago
I still feel guilty from time to time but I realized that my thoughts are separate from me and are not reflective of my values in any way. I recognize that the thoughts are intrusive so I know they aren’t mine and don’t actually mean anything.
Vinita devalVinita deval
- Date posted
- 2y ago
How to detach that thing that those thoughts are not me
holkahjuxhholkahjuxh
- Date posted
- 2y ago
my guilt has been gone
donnocddonnocd
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 2y ago
Im currently struggling.. I have distressing intrusive thoughts and i get pretty worked up because it goes against my values... That for me is my greatest struggle... I feel like Its just so opposite to my beliefs that's i get worked up.. I haven't been able to catch it fast enough to minimize it but struggling to dismiss it for me makes it stronger... I also try to say maybe . Maybe not.... But my OCD at most times don't acknowledge that and i fall into a rumination and problem solving track and it often snowballs from there. I've started erp but it's early days still.. Im trying to learn how to handle these thoughts It's been tough
callistapoppcallistapopp
- Date posted
- 2y ago
totally understand. i’m currently in a bit of a lapse, and i’ve been diagnosed for about a year. it does get better, but it is hard work. we are all brave soldiers that can face this fight and beat it!!
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- Date posted
- 16w ago
Does anyone else..
Feel guilty for not giving into compulsions like rumination and confessing? I feel guilt for having an intrusive thought, trying to shrug it off or just giving it a few seconds of thought and moving along. This sounds like improvement but I still struggle with the anxiety and the guilt. The shame. I’ll be okay and then I’ll remember I have OCD and my stomach will drop and I just want to curl up and cry.
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andrea_sam730
- Date posted
- 10w ago
Self pleasure and intrusive thoughts :/
I’m sharing this bc I need advice or even support from anyone who can relate. If you can’t relate and don’t think you’ll say anything helpful or kind pls don’t comment anything… I’ve been struggling with somethings that’s making me question myself. There has been moments while self pleasuring when I get intrusive thoughts, in those moments it feels like I’m enjoying or even self pleasuring myself bc of the thought. Right after I immediately have an anxiety attack and my HEART drops bc it feels terrible I feel like a disgusting monster :( ppl have told me I haven’t done a bad bc of how intense my guilt and panic are but I keep thinking that MAYBE I made a horrible decision in the moment and the guilt is just realising that it’s just wrong this doesn’t make sense to me because I’ve always told myself that I would never act on this in 1 million years and I’ve been known that these things are wrong so I’m just like constantly questioning myself these feelings and exact same situation has happened two times already I even promised myself that I wouldn’t act on anything beforehand and yeah, I still felt like I did act on my thought during my alone time I’m genuinely convinced that I’m a horrible and it’s even got into the point where I don’t wanna be here anymore and I don’t even think this is my OCD :( tbh
Ellen_l
- Date posted
- 9w ago
Advice?
I’m having a big OCD relapse and would like to hear anyone’s tips on how to be present and healthily deal with these intrusive thoughts and the “need” to preform compulsions. Thank you!!
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