I feel like my boyfriend may be toxic to my life. We are 27, he doesn’t know what he wants out of life. Neither do I but like he’s changed his career path, now 4 times since we’ve been together in 2 years. He just got a job but before that was jobless for 9 MONTHS. His car broke, I’ve been driving him places. I love him but idk if I’m in love with him anymore. I was honestly thinking about breaking up with him when I picked him up tonight. But then I am so attached to him and it’s like idk if that’s just Security reasons. I always feel like I would be better off with someone else. But then I get scared cause I’m going to be 28 in less than a month and I’ve spent 2 years with him, and before that didn’t have a boyfriend for FOUR YEARS. Sometimes I feel like I’m settling. It is so hard to know what you feel and what OCD is telling you. Because this may sound bad but like I’m no peach either. I have severe ocd so he does so much for me, laundry, cleaning, etc. i have type 1 diabetes and he always takes care of me that way. Idk Idk Idk.

Oh NO! Maybe the way it was written makes it seem like a different situation than it is! He definitely cares so much about me! I have horrible insecurities and always think he doesn’t love me and what if I would be happy with someone else? But I love him, he’s just going through a hard time in his life. What does it say if I leave him because I can’t handle that? Then I’ll always be alone, because that’s human.

Like I am changing?

Like “growing” in a healthy way for yourself. Hey by the way I think you replied to my post earlier. But we are both so young. We have so much time to figure things out. Just do what makes you comfortable and deal with it later. I mean I know I don’t have a right to tell you cause of my boyfriend giving ME problems as well. But I was single for 4 years before too and that scares the crap out of me thinking about leaving my boyfriend. But do pros and cons

Your boyfriend is 15 years older? And I don’t know ??‍♀️

And that’s why I said do pros and cons!! But if you are holding back after all then that means you don’t want to do it

Break up with him. I feel like you are thinking logically here and if you feel deep down like you are changing, maybe it’s for the best

17 years older