Has anyone had their theme change and they no longer cared about their previous theme? I used to have harm, and now that I have POCD I don’t care about my harm theme. I’m not triggered by it really at all.
yes, i'm the same. almost like OCD is saying "oh that theme? that wasn't real. i was just tricking you. but this new theme? THIS ONE is real, and you should be worried!" it's ridiculous.
@Anoni-Mouse This 🙌🏻 this describe perfectly what i feels like.
@Anoni-Mouse So true.
@Anoni-Mouse Yeah it’s crazy just how fast your mind will move on to the next thing, and the previous thing seems so small and distant.
@AnonCDub So true!!!
yes, and I always “regret” my previous theme, because it seems easily manageable, while the current one seems the worst ever. Same old story :(
@Nonso 10000%. I’ve been missing my old theme which is awful because it was a terrible theme , but somehow this one feels worse
Yess! I also used to have harm ocd and it has switched to health ocd. Now that i have health ocd nothing that triggered me before triggers me now. It’s honestly crazy because i was so distressed about certain things and now it’s like oh i forgot it even bothered me.
@Anon17 Yes I remember because we had harm ocd at the same time! It’s so weird cuz now I literally am like, how did that bother me... but I can’t convince myself that this is OCD too.
@Sam-OverOcd That’s exactly what I’m struggling with too. I can’t convince myself that this is ocd/anxiety sometimes. The physical symptoms feels so real.
How did you both overcome your Harm OCD? It’s been my longest theme for over a year and I can’t seem to shake it.
@——— I’m not completely sure if I overcame it since my theme just changed, but ICBT (inference based therapy) was really helping me. It’s a different OCD treatment.
@Sam-OverOcd Thank you
@——— Let me know if you wanna know more about it
@Sam-OverOcd I would like to know more about it if you wouldn’t mind sharing please
@jonathanberry73 Here’s the site! https://icbt.online You can find a list of therapists using this method on the site as well (let me know if you can’t find it) I would definitely recommend finding a therapist rather than doing it yourself. ICBT focuses on how we get to our obsessions rather than the compulsions per say. The idea is if we understand how we get to our obsessions, we can see they aren’t rooted in reality and let go of them. This DOESNT mean challenging the thoughts - we never do that, more so just realizing they aren’t relevant to reality if that makes sense.
@jonathanberry73 Let me know if you have more questions. This has been my therapy for the last two months as opposed to ERP. My therapist does both though. ICBT helped with harm theme but hasn’t helped with POCD yet, but it takes tiem
@——— Like said above I’m not sure if i had completely overcome it yet but more so just a theme change. I’m hoping i overcame it because the thoughts that i was having were very disturbing and gruesome. I have only been dealing with what i believe is ocd (not diagnosed) for about 4 Months. With that being said since I’m so new to it this app is all i have so far. I have not joined therapy to do erp training or anything like that. I am solely doing this on my own right now because I guess i am just so in shock that this randomly happened to me in the first place. I heard that fast theme changes are good so i am going to continue what I’ve been doing to see if i can get through this next hurdle on my own as well. If not then i will consider therapy. But to try and answer your question i think my way to potentially overcoming it was doing want you could call natural erp training. I am a cook for my job so i am constantly touching knives and sharp tools daily. That being said i think my mind finally realized since i always have a knife in my hand and have never done anything like my thoughts were saying that it finally realized like oh this is okay with her let’s move in to something else. I also was so shook when these thoughts first appeared that i was so determined to make them go away and get better. So i immediately cut soda out of my diet because i read online that caffeine ( pop specifically) can make your mental health so much worse. I also said phrases in my head when thoughts appeared. I told myself “ i can see that you are there but you do not define me” over and over and eventually the thought left and didn’t bother me for a while ( came back eventually but i continued to do the same thing). So fingers crossed 🤞🏻 that what i am trying is actually working considering the theme change that ive had already in the course of a few months. I hope anything i said helps you and if you have anymore questions I’d be happy to try and Answer them :)
@Anon17 Thank you very much.
I remember back when I studied to be a kindergarten teacher i had pocd, really intense. Then my theme because So ocd and u struggle with this theme for two years now. Between these themes though i had and still have intrusive thoughts that has to do with different themes.
Same here!
It likes to switch
To the people who are in therapy and on their recovery journey when the ocd is tending to die down a bit is it normal for the ocd to keep switching themes until it fully dissipates? Has anyone experienced this?
Struggling with TOCD has probably been the hardest theme I’ve had to deal with so far For reference. I’m a gay male 20yr old Before this theme I was so open with my gender expression, love drag and used to do it for a time. A lot of my friends are trans women and my whole life is queer When this theme hit. It’s like I completely lost who I was. Questioning everything I enjoyed, not participating in anything because it triggered me so heavily. I went through a whole gender journey awhile back and the trans path never spoke to me when I looked into it. I love my physique and my face but now when I look into the mirror i feel like a shell of who I was. I can’t find any sort of pure enjoyment without the accompanying “what if” or “you’re this” intrusive thought I still enjoy how I look. I’ve not looked in the mirror and felt like anything is missing from me or needs to be taken away I just feel like a spectator in my life while this disease tells me I’m not who I know myself to be I affirm myself every day I know who I am and it may change in the future but that’s not important. It’s highly unlikely it will but it may! Giving into the uncertainty has been so hard but it’s worth it! My ocd has really picked up since getting into my first serious relationship I care about my boyfriend with my whole heart but over the course of our relationship my themes have included Health Relationship Irreality Harm I just want to be who I was again before this current theme it feels unbearable to live like this BUT! I’m seeking appropriate treatment and not giving into a majority of compulsions I just wanted to write this to see if anyone can relate and if they do. Know that you will overcome this! I know I will and you will too
I’ve had different themes of ocd throughout my life. Can they all differ such as how the thoughts may present? Currently my thoughts feel so true immediately (like they genuinely feel like what I think) but in the last theme I feel like it may have been more of a “what if I think this” type of situation
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