Why did I feel aroused by my mate's attractive girlfriend's photo?

18+ please

Yesterday I seen a post my mates girlfriend posted on FB. I noticed on the pic some of her thigh was there, she has tights on I think. Anyway I kind of felt some arousal! I think she is an attractive person and I would never cross that line or anything as it's my mates gf! But why did I feel some arousal. Is it normal make biology or maybe it's OCD and feeling on edge by looking lol. Flipping mind!

Username: Idontknowausername Idontknowaus...

Date posted: 1y ago

ITS OCD questioning whether it’s ocd is reassurance seeking which unfortunately makes ocd worse.

Username: kiki♡kiki♡

Date posted: 1y ago

I don't think it's OCD... it just sounds like a normal biological response and doesn't warrant any further thought.

Username: Idontknowausername Idontknowaus...

Date posted: 1y ago

@krikri_ You’re right about it just being biological what I meant is the further thought you mentioned. Which op is having.

Username: AnonymousAnonymous

Date posted: 1y ago

There is a wonderful book out there called Come as You Are that outlines how arousal is merely a biological response to a sexually relevant stimulus but is completely separate from desire, interest or wanting. Now they often come together but they don’t need to. You can feel arousal in response to something sexually relevant like an exposed thigh and have no accompanied desire to interact with it

Username: Inferno Inferno

Date posted: 1y ago

Well that’s your sexuality assuming you are straight based on your male profile picture. Yeah I definitely one thing thought of old my friends boyfriend’s was attractive but same I would never cross that line. It did feel unloyal to my friend but we talked about how I thought he was cute before they were even dating and she knows and said that’s fine because humans are attracted to other humans but it is up to my choice if I make a move on him or not. Attraction is something you can’t control

Username: T.

Date posted: 5y ago

Saw a post on tumblr this morning about a 15 year old boy helping a little girl learn how to skateboard, and my initial reaction was "awww, that's so sweet" but then I got a weird feeling in my stomach and wondered "do you think that the 15 year old boy is attractive for being kind to the little girl?" (Don't ask me how that even makes sense idk) And I know it's probably because I'm worried about being attracted to anybody teenaged or younger but I can't help but analyze my feelings. Like was my weird feeling in my stomach unease? Arousal? I have no idea. I'm uncomfortable now but trying to focus on breathing and watching gilmore girls

POCD

Username: nlnnoaia

Date posted: 5y ago

POCD TW I was scrolling through Instagram and saw a picture of a little girl and suddenly I had the urge to kiss or touch her or something it scared me a lot and I started scrolling faster to get away from it BUT I felt a groinal response and it felt SO real like butterflies and twitching and itching and everything maybe even vaginal lubrication and I had the urge to masterbate and scrolled back to make sure I don’t desire this and I felt calmer when I didn’t feel anything looking at her again but I still feel anxious and kinda aroused during the day thinking back to the situation I don’t know what to do it feels so real the urges and everything ?

Username: holley

Date posted: 3y ago

a little concerned. i’m not gonna freak out and come on this app all anxious and nervous i’ve made that mistake one too many times. but, i was watching tik toks and there was this one that this girl said she would rather scissor with a girl and i genuinely got turned on and in my head i was like (TMI 18+ AT THIS POINT)… “yeah i want that omg” and it turned me on but at the same time made me very anxious. i just don’t believe that runs through straight girls’ minds if they see stuff like that. any advice? on like how to handle this? no one ever really talks about genuine arousal all that’s ever talked about it “groinals”. (which i do in fact believe are a very real thing)

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