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In their essence, they are just ideas that pass through our head because we have functioning cognitive abilities and have learned what they are. Our ability to know and think about these things comes with the fact that we are human beings, and that isn’t bad. If they were ‘bad’ that would mean having the thoughts was ‘bad’ when that isn’t the case! People without obsessive tendencies know that they aren’t bad for thinking about ‘bad’ things, or having thoughts with ‘bad’ ideas in them. But the thought itself isn’t ‘bad’- it isn’t colored red for bad and green for good. It’s just a little orb with an idea inside of it that we should just let pass. It’s sticky, so if we try touching it and messing with it and seeing if it means something, it’s gonna stick and try to tell us that it does mean something about us. There doesn’t need to be any sort of alarm when they happen because it’s just a cloud passing by. It might block the sun for a second and try to freak us out, but it always passes straight through without having any defining affect on our realities. We just need to stop punishing ourselves for having vivid imaginations!!?
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- 5y ago
This is amazing ?
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- 5y ago
I think I might already do this in my life, whenever something starts going terribly wrong I just sing about how much I love it LOL?. So for example, I needed a new car battery which was super expensive and then I got a flat tire in the same day but I just started singing “I just got a flare tireee and I am sooo excitedddd hehe, I love that for myself because I loveeeee flat tires” and then that makes me laugh and then the bad moment kinda gets better??❤️
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- 5y ago
I will try it but Idk, my songs can get me worse. I like nobooody And nobooody likes me I will die I will set myself freeee??? Well if you being sarcastic in singing it could help a little?
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- 5y ago
Every time I think of sarcasm singing I picture homer from the simpsons when he sing in sarcastic way that could help more?
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- 5y ago
I agree
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- 5y ago
Love this, I’m gonna try it???❤️
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- 5y ago
I think it could help if you were smiling while singing your intrusive thoughts!:) Smiling says to to the brain that you are experiencing something ‘joyful’ so maybe we could just fake it until we make it haha! Intrusive thoughts aren’t bad and they aren’t good- they just exist so we need to tell our brains that they can have a home in our head without it meaning anything dangerous or deep:)
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- 5y ago
I think intrusive thought are bad but could you tell me why it isn't?
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- 23w ago
One fun thing about what I’ve experienced is that even if I go to people for reassurance, more often than not it doesn’t help and makes things worse. I see how from an outside perspective it looks like denial and the moment I open my mouth to talk about it the instant thought is “you’re faking it, you know it’s true and you’re faking it”. And it’s great when people say maybe you are this or that like it’s no big deal, …but it is? And then again it’s like maybe they see something I don’t?
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- 22w ago
Lately, I have been able to manage my OCD thoughts kind of. They’re still there but I kind of push them away? I know that pushing them away doesn’t help but it’s been my only way to survive. I get scared often about things like clothes or my voice or how I present myself. I get scared that I want to dress differently or act differently and it scares me. I know for a fact I don’t want boobs or anything like that, but my mind constantly is like “What if?” and it kills me. It has ruined everything for me. Sometimes I can’t even look in the mirror because I get scared that I won’t like what I see. I’ve also been afraid because I find myself relating to many female characters, or I want to act like them. Like Pearl from Steven Universe. I want to be graceful and elegant like her, but I don’t want to be a girl you know? My mind constantly pushes these thoughts of what if and images. Because I am not like most guys. Which I know is okay. It just freaks me out. It makes me question every aspect of my being. I know who I am, but I know that the only way to move forward is to accept that maybe I don’t.. It’s just a lot.
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- 9w ago
I struggle so bad with intrusive thoughts. They can be so bad that I'll cry because I KNOW that's not how I feel or want to do. (Too embarrassed to say what they're about) I'll constantly try to figure out why I have them, and constantly figure out what they mean, causing me to constantly circle around and around. I had to get on anxeity meds, which helped a little but the thoughts still happen. How do you help yourself with this? How do you know that you're just not some physcopath? 😅
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