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In their essence, they are just ideas that pass through our head because we have functioning cognitive abilities and have learned what they are. Our ability to know and think about these things comes with the fact that we are human beings, and that isn’t bad. If they were ‘bad’ that would mean having the thoughts was ‘bad’ when that isn’t the case! People without obsessive tendencies know that they aren’t bad for thinking about ‘bad’ things, or having thoughts with ‘bad’ ideas in them. But the thought itself isn’t ‘bad’- it isn’t colored red for bad and green for good. It’s just a little orb with an idea inside of it that we should just let pass. It’s sticky, so if we try touching it and messing with it and seeing if it means something, it’s gonna stick and try to tell us that it does mean something about us. There doesn’t need to be any sort of alarm when they happen because it’s just a cloud passing by. It might block the sun for a second and try to freak us out, but it always passes straight through without having any defining affect on our realities. We just need to stop punishing ourselves for having vivid imaginations!!?
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This is amazing ?
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- 6y
I think I might already do this in my life, whenever something starts going terribly wrong I just sing about how much I love it LOL?. So for example, I needed a new car battery which was super expensive and then I got a flat tire in the same day but I just started singing “I just got a flare tireee and I am sooo excitedddd hehe, I love that for myself because I loveeeee flat tires” and then that makes me laugh and then the bad moment kinda gets better??❤️
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I will try it but Idk, my songs can get me worse. I like nobooody And nobooody likes me I will die I will set myself freeee??? Well if you being sarcastic in singing it could help a little?
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Every time I think of sarcasm singing I picture homer from the simpsons when he sing in sarcastic way that could help more?
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I agree
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Love this, I’m gonna try it???❤️
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I think it could help if you were smiling while singing your intrusive thoughts!:) Smiling says to to the brain that you are experiencing something ‘joyful’ so maybe we could just fake it until we make it haha! Intrusive thoughts aren’t bad and they aren’t good- they just exist so we need to tell our brains that they can have a home in our head without it meaning anything dangerous or deep:)
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- 6y
I think intrusive thought are bad but could you tell me why it isn't?
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- 23w
I've been really overwhelmed with thoughts of detransitioning even though I don't want to like thinking I'm not a boy. It's been making my anxiety go up like crazy but I've never had this problem this much before, and I've always felt so proud of who I was and stuff but I don't know why this is coming up all of a sudden and I'm scared. I don't want to detransition but these thoughts won't go away. I often have feminine interests and have been trying to get into a better mindset and I feel like those things are making me feel more feminine and I don't want to feel that way.
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- 20w
I actually didn't realise this til now because I just assumed it was a coping mechanism from when I was really young. But when I tend to get stressed out or overwhelmed, I'll often start talking out loud to myself (which mostly means just whispering to myself because if i spoke really loudly, my mom would hear me lol). But nowadays with my fear of being surveilled, I keep having to catch myself because it's such a habit at this point for me to whisper out loud. Especially with me trying to reason through my false memories or really bad intrusive thoughts. Another compulsion. And then I keep thinking omg did I have my phone with me when I said that. Is anyone watching me rn? What if this person (that probably doesn't even exist) thinks my thoughts are true? What would everyone else think? And then I spiral afterwards. It sucks because I feel like I'm policing myself even when I know these are all just things I'm saying out loud and they don't mean anything— they're just thoughts after all. But I have this worry that if someone overheard me or all of this was suddenly revealed, that it might change how people see me or people might hate me or think i'm a bad person. And then I worry about me being worried about that because then I ask myself would a good person be worried about this? Anyways, another long post with me waffling and rambling. Thank you for taking the time to read this ❤️🩹
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- 16w
Is it okay to use "I am" statements when intrusive thoughts come up? I'm afraid of telling myself the wrong things and it becoming a compulsion. If anyone has advice, I'd appreciate it! 🤍
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