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I been in my ocd relapse for about a month and a week. But month befor it actually hit me. I noticed I wasn’t showing as often or eating good. Or shaving. Or cleaning my house and keeping up with things that I did I new somthing was happening. I was gonna go get back on my pills wen I noticed I was neglecting myself and my house. I just didn’t get around to it. But then boom ocd was back. I slowly went down hill. It’s normal wen you don’t feel like yourself. You don’t do things like your self. My dr told me to fake it till I make it. As in act like you did befor and I will fall back into the habit. Like going to the gym was hard but now I’m getting better at going cause I make myself go. Also look up 5 minute rule on YouTube.
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Sorry 5 second rule.
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hi naj, I definitely struggle with taking care of myself when OCD + depression hit, and getting out of bed can feel like the most difficult thing. something that really helps me is being kind to myself. if you get out of bed, even if it takes you half of the day to do so, take it as a little victory. once you get out of bed, think about washing your hair. if you wash your hair, celebrate another little victory. one thing at a time... I get overwhelmed thinking about all the things I have to do or should be doing, so focusing on one thing at a time has been really beneficial for me. i hope this helps + i hope you start to feel better. you’re not alone
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Thank you so much for that because I honestly feel like this is a very hard thing for me and I was never like this before ?
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- OCD Conqueror
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- 6y
I do find it hard not from the OCD so much but the depression that tags along with it
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Anxiety. Depression ice is all linked.
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The depression this time around was so bad for me. The worst ever
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Today I took a shower and shaved and got my eyebrows done . That was a small but big step for me and I actually feel really good about that and it kind of has me in a good space so far
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I will forget to brush my teeth, I don’t do my hair anymore (I used to always do SOMETHING to it, like different hairstyles or braids. Now its always down or in messy bun that’s it) I don’t wear jewelry anymore or take my time to pick out my outfit. I was NEVER really a girly girl. There was a time in my life I was but when I stopped being friends with certain people I realized over time I never actually liked that sort of thing. But still it’s hard to explain but I don’t care about anything anymore in regards to how I look and there’s a difference between putting effort into yourself because you like attention (people who like fashion, makeup etc usually like the positive attention they get) and putting effort into yourself because you love yourself and want to present that to yourself and the world. And I don’t do that anymore.
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- 15w
Does anyone else ever feel like they don’t feel “bad enough” to have OCD, or that they don’t feel “the right way” for it? Or like they’re just saying they have OCD as an excuse? Because i was so much better for like 3 weeks now and now im on my period and i started doubting again. So because of that im scared that i was feeling to good and that my fear is actually true.
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- 14w
Hi everyone. I’m having a really hard time today in my relationship. I am just feeling so frustrated by my back-and-forth feelings about my relationship. One day I’ll feel so good, and then the next I don’t at all. I think my biggest trigger in the house is the chores that the two of us have to do in the house. I’m much more of a clean person than my boyfriend is. I’m also thinking that he has ADHD and struggles to remember when to do specific chores and I have to remind him pretty often, but he will usually do it when I ask. Today, I’m on a huge spiral of telling myself that he is never gonna be able to learn to do things on his own, he’s not gonna be able to take care of our kids in the future If we do get married, he’s not gonna be able to help take care of our house when we do have one one day, And I am just exhausted. It’s so hard fighting these thoughts all day and then I feel like I have to sit down and talk to him about chores and obviously that doesn’t go well when I’m not feeling good. Definitely a compulsion… It feels so much better when I can just relax and just let him figure things out on his own, and I can just take care of myself. I also come from a household where I was constantly criticized and controlled in certain ways, so I have that to carry too…I’ve gotten much better at doing that most of the time but today is pretty bad. It always feels a little bit worse as well when I’m on my period and feeling very hormonal as well… Can anyone please shed some light on if they’ve experienced this before and any support they might be able to offer in relation to this? Anything would be helpful and please be kind!
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- 14w
So I was doing good for about 5 months. I was going to therapy, practicing the skills, and for about the past month, I fell into a depression funk. The last week, however, has been a week of really loud OCD. I am in a constant state of anxiety and find myself doing compulsions. I'm wondering if anyone has experienced what I'm about to describe. I'm considering taking myself to the hospital, but my little boy's birthday party is this weekend and I don't want to miss it: I keep having this bad feeling like I actually want to do the bad things in my mind. I know OCD intrusive thoughts can tell you "I want to" but this just seems different - maybe it's OCD trying to come at me a new way. It's not like thoughts telling me "I want" it's like even when I tell myself I don't want to do the bad stuff, there's this nagging feeling telling me I really want to. I'm scared.
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