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Groinal
I know groinal responses usually happen with intrusive thoughts and everything. But I’ve gotten them to things that I hear and they weren’t sexual at all and that makes me worry that I am what I fear :/
I know groinal responses usually happen with intrusive thoughts and everything. But I’ve gotten them to things that I hear and they weren’t sexual at all and that makes me worry that I am what I fear :/
ocd is basically like a bully. it knows that u are afraid of something, so it will do things like this on purpose. also, groinal responses dont mean anything. they can usually happen due to anxiety.
I mentioned this on another thread but.. DO NOT believe everything you think.. and feel.... Do you find yourself worrying about the content of your thoughts (“why am I thinking that terrible thing!?”)? or even everything your body feels? Does your OCD ever try to convince you that because you had aggressive thoughts, you might actually be an aggressive person? If so, you probably have a high level of the belief that thoughts are important. But the truth is that not all thoughts/feelings are created equal! The fleeting thought about rear-ending the car that just pulled out in front of you or about taking off your shirt at church do not deserve the same attention as our other thoughts. Or having a groinal response to something seemingly unimportant... But OCD would like you to believe that there’s a terrible reason for each and every one of your most disliked thoughts/feelings. Instead of treating all thoughts as significant information about yourself or the world, you can adopt more balanced thoughts, such as: • OCD gives me a lot of spam/trash thoughts. • Thinking something doesn’t make it more likely to be true. • My morality is not tied to my thoughts. • What are some others that could be helpful for you?
Agreed in TOTALITY!!!!
Again, our bodies are weird and OCD will make us think we feel or focus on things that may are happening with our bodies that have nothing to do with the thought but it finds a way to link them together. We learn to fight back and ignore these responses with time. Have you been getting therapy for OCD?
Does anyone else when they have the thoughts, they feel against it, but they still get arousal or tenglings sensations in the groinal area? Because this is what I experienced today and I feel like crap. This is going to be very triggering for a lot of you, but there are a lot of times that I notice things from kids. For example, there is a thirteen year old kid who looks very developed for her age, and I take notice of (and this already sounds creepy to me) her chest. Today with my thoughts, I imagined as if I were touching it, and although I usually "no no or "I don't want to do that", she is a kid, etc., I still get responses in my groinal area, and It felt very real. Even now, I feel as though I am faking it, even though I groan 😮💨 from it, and feel as though I am a fraud. Does anyone relate?
hi does anyone ever get a random grounal response then feel aroused but you don’t want to be like before i had the thought i was feeling a little aroused then i had a random thought and it had the ground response and i felt aroused i don’t understand.
Everyone talks about the physical sensations that come with reacting to sexual content, even if it’s something you do not agree with (like bestiality, pedophilia, or incest). But what about the mental feeling, like when it feels like you liked the thought? I think I might have asked this before, but does anyone else relate? It stresses me out that I have a mental reaction to something of sexual content more than groinals. Anyone else?
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