- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 2y ago
3rd ERP…
Anybody else super anxious when you move up the next level on the hierarchy?
Anybody else super anxious when you move up the next level on the hierarchy?
Yes. You can do it.
Yes, it that’s normal! Push through the nerves 👏🏻❤️
@Nica I’m pushing! I’ve been in a heightened anxiety state since I did it today.
But you did it. That’s great.
I think that it's quite normal to feel that way when you're in ERP therapy, and I have felt that way before too when I was moving up to the next level on the hierarchy. It is normal to have good days and bad days during therapy - you are working so hard to create a better pattern with the thoughts and you are going to get super anxious sometimes. The more you challenge OCD with exposures, the more you are showing yourself "I can do this". Remember to always be kind and patient with yourself on this journey. You are always doing the best you can and we are going to be here for you every step of the way!
@Anonymous Thank you!❤️
@Rcope09 - You're welcome, I'm always happy to help!
So you got to ask me anything… Now I’d like to ask you something! I’ve heard from Members that they were so scared coming to their first ERP session. They were terrified that I would think they were crazy, that I would tell them their worst fears were true. That I would confirm they are some form of a terrible person or have them hauled off to prison for their thoughts. I’ve also had Members share how they’re very scared to begin ERP treatment because they’ve researched enough to know it means facing the fear, without the compulsions that have kept them feeling safe (but not really safe) this entire time. They struggled to see how they could be capable of doing this, while simultaneously acknowledging that they did not want to live like this anymore. If you have had your first session, what were your thoughts before? Did you have any hesitations or fears going into it? How did it turn out? If you haven’t yet begun to work with an ERP specialist, what is holding you back?
Can I hear some examples of specific parts of ERP that has helped you? I've been doing talk therapy for a few years and the major issue I have with it is that I already have analyzed all of my problems from every angle, so I'm kind of just sitting there yapping about it for an hour. I need solutions and things that make me feel better.
I’m starting NOCD. I had several years of cbt as a child (well over 20 years ago) and I see a trauma therapist. But now I’ll be seeking further help for OCD and just really scared. CBT wasn’t helpful for me. How has ERP been helpful for you? Do you feel like you’ll finally get your life back? I’m consumed by my obsessions 😢 Would love others feedback if ERP helped you ❤️
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