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Ocd friends
Would it be helpful or harmful to have friends with the same ocd as you? I feel like it would be helpful for grounding but maybe harmful due to feeding off each others thoughts/fears. Ocd can be lonely :(
Would it be helpful or harmful to have friends with the same ocd as you? I feel like it would be helpful for grounding but maybe harmful due to feeding off each others thoughts/fears. Ocd can be lonely :(
I don’t know anyone else with OCD like mine and I don’t talk about it with anyone I’m close with. I like to have my outlet as friends on this app I think it’s the perfect balance for me :)
@Disko Having an outlet would be helpful, especially with people who can relate. I’ve never met anyone else with ocd like mine either!
honestly I like having somone to relate too makes me feel tuns better
I remember reading a comment someone had made to one of my posts on an OCD subreddit and they told me how they believed their OCD symptoms got worse during a time in their life when they were socially isolated. Reading this comment made the brightest lightbulb go off in my head because it basically summarized most of what I’ve been going through. In addition to OCD, I also struggle with depression and social anxiety. I feel like these three things and the profound sense of loneliness I’ve felt throughout my years in college (undergrad) feed off of each other. I know that OCD can manifest in so many different ways regardless of what your social life looks like, but I can’t help but feel like the lack of relationships (specifically friendships)/community in my life has something to do with my mental health and the delay in my recovery. Side note: I’m still relatively new to NOCD, but I’m happy to say that I’ve been making some good progress in my therapy sessions <3
Guys, does isolating yourself from society make OCD worse? Because I go out these days and I feel like my questions are illogical. Because it seems that alone, everything becomes bigger. It seems that we disregard everything. So something that you would or wouldn't do doesn't seem to have an answer because you don't consider the other. Is this real? Because for example, one question is whether I would take advantage of someone. But the question is, does that someone exist? It's not something that's in my head. In real life, we're all human and you see them that way. So your debt is answered with no. Because that's how you are, when placed in society. You would only do some harm if you didn't consider this, but that would be your values, right? So OCD asks some questions that disregard things, right?
I’m 19 and struggle with health anxiety, contamination, harm, and magical thinking OCD and would love to meet people with similar experiences and hardships because I have never had an opportunity for such a supportive community!
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