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Employment.
Do people prefer self employment or being employed by someone else? I’m in a group for autistic people and they prefer to be their own boss, I wondered if that was the same here.
Do people prefer self employment or being employed by someone else? I’m in a group for autistic people and they prefer to be their own boss, I wondered if that was the same here.
I do both 🤷🏻♀️
@Nica Which do you prefer?
@Newb82 I do both because I like the stability of both options.
@Nica I suppose it is the best of both worlds.
This is a great question. I say write the pros and cons of both. Do something that makes you feel masterful. What do you like to do/see yourself doing for work? Can it be something you do from home while also interacting with others? I love this guy on Instagram who has shown how he has made speaking his career after being nonverbal: https://www.instagram.com/autisticprofessionalspeaker/?utm_source=ig_embed&ig_rid=34a6f424-10e8-4d3a-82fe-7d49cacc4acc&ig_mid=F83A363A-7E9F-4757-BB6A-5A60030289ED
@NOCD Therapist - Alessandra R. I too have been non verbal and homeless. I’m looking into being a landlord. I have autism and OCD I think (just waiting for official confirmation) and I’ve always had trouble getting along in life. Since the dr started me on SSRI’s lots of things have gotten easier. Plus this is a job without anyone looming over my shoulder. Anyone I have to deal with will be paid by me too so I’m the boss. I’m expecting to have contact with people maybe half a dozen times to a dozen times through the year. Someone else will be managing the properties too. I’ve worked so hard to get off drugs and stay off them for seven years now and I feel that this is my reward.
@Newb82 - It sounds like you're doing hard work! Great idea for a job.
I have an employer and I also make some stuff on the side. I prefer having an employer so I have a steady paycheck. I know that it can take awhile sometimes to become successful on your own. I make decent money from my employer so I can’t really complain.
@MK30 I can understand the stability.
Being self-employed is great. I’m a caregiver for individuals with special needs/disabilities and I work primarily for the families, but also am certified with a few HomeCare companies that they’re partnered with.
@K-M I hear that sort of work is very rewarding. It must be great to work with people.
@Newb82 I love it so much!! Been doing it for almost 5 years. It is definitely my passion and brings a lot of joy into my life.
I’m so glad everybody has a comfortable job where they can pay for therapy. But I’ve realized my ocd has gotten worse at the job I’m currently at and I don’t want to quit because the job market is never hiring and I always have bills to pay like every freaking week on top of that I’m still in college. I think being stressed is making my ocd worse.
Hi, what's everyone's views on self diagnosis. If a professional option is not available is it ok to self diagnose or is just best to be open minded and not being sure with what the illness is. Thanks
Does anyone have OCD regarding always feeling like you are not good enough at your job? I'm 58 years old now I've had OCD since childhood. Every job I've been at I never felt as good as my colleagues. I am a nurse but I worked at that for 15 years I had a breakdown of sorts in 2017 and went on disability. I now work part time as a a swim instructor for kids. I always was afraid of killing someone when I was a nurse. Then I tried dog grooming but I was afraid I would do it wrong and hurt the dogs. At least now the stakes are lower. But my OCD is the same. I work with colleagues who are about 40 years younger than I am . I am afraid of teaching certain classes bc I feel like I wouldn't do as good a job as someone else. I know I can do it but it's like I have a fear of not giving them their money's worth. I've been at my current job for 2 years . I've gotten very positive comments from my managers but I can't seem to believe them. I feel a lot of shame bc I lost a lot of my life to OCD and I am at an age where people are starting to retire after long and successful careers and here I am working at an entry level job. I'm planning on trying to get out of my comfort zone and teaching some of the classes I'm afraid of .it's really hard. I'm always scared what if I lose my benefits and had to work again as a nurse how would I do it.
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