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- 2y
Relationship stuff.. listen to the heart or brain?
So, i want to know if i should listen to my heart or my mind. I have a situation where i am not in control i like this guy we have been seeing each other for 10 months now its hasn’t been official because of my issues and now his. Ocd has played a major role in that. I need to know that when a man asks for time and space and says i will be back to you what should i do? Wait around and listen to my heart that says i wanna give this relationship a try cause i have made mistakes in the past with this or what if he loses interest with this time and space thing where he says he is personally going through something and can’t romantically give himself for a while but we can do a do over but is not sure and has been brutally honest with me about all of it but my heart wants to give it another chance and see this through but the what if’s never stop.. what if it doesn’t work out? What if he leaves and all i feel is a waste in the next few months.. he has told me 2 months is a time where a lot of things can change but should i listen to my heart and hold on to it? My friends are saying something my brain is telling me something heart says something. I need some stranger advice to tell me is it okay to listen to my heart or is my heart playing with me too? Is it wrong to want to give this relationship a chance? And why does the overthinking thoughts of what if nothing works out? What if he leaves me? What if he is done with me after 2 months what guarantee do i have? Should i take this chance? Will he take me for granted if i wait around? Will he respect me as much? Will he respect this relationship as much? So many questions and no answers or should i just listen to my heart and take it one day at a time.?