- Date posted
- 2y
Just need to vent
It’s super bad in my house right now. As I’m sure many of you have read, I’ve had some yucky marriage problems. Long story short, my husband feels disrespected by me for still wanting to do Botox when he doesn’t support it (we agreed once a year before marriage, and I asked for that compromise specifically because it is something I want to continue doing). Now that we’re married, he says okay well now it’s a NO. I haven’t even done it since November so idk why this is coming up. Maybe I am selfish and self centered for fighting for this rather than submitting to him. Anyway, now it’s turned into him saying that we’re only roommates, he doesn’t want me to feed him anymore, clean his laundry, buy his groceries. Told me I should’ve stayed single and I should start acting like a wife and a decent human being, should’ve kept the rings when he broke up with me the first time and just left me, etc. I feel pretty stuck and I’ve honestly felt stuck so many times since we’ve gotten married. I love him and he’s my bestest friend, but I feel relief when separation is discussed. I just don’t really know where to go from here. Counseling has already been discussed, he wants to go to the church instead. I’m nervous because I feel like I’ll hear again that I’m not submitting and I’m being a bad wife. Maybe it’s true.