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I felt like life was meaningless
I don't know why i feel like this. Could it be because I'm going through things? Maybe depression. Could anyone help me out?
I don't know why i feel like this. Could it be because I'm going through things? Maybe depression. Could anyone help me out?
I get this. Lately I’ve been feeling so mellow, so done, almost as if a part of me has just given up. I think it can definitely be because you’re going through things. I also think it can be attributed to depression. Everything is so much bigger and scarier and harder when you’re in the midst of it, but out on the other side you’ll look back and realize it wasn’t meaningless. Life isn’t meaningless. Life just sucks sometimes. Maybe a lot of the time. There are still some really cool really fun really amazing parts though. Try and reconnect with something you love or something you used to love. Watch an old favorite movie or show, just to smile a little and get your brain thinking. Read a good book if you like. Do whatever. And don’t forget to give yourself forgiveness. If you’re going through it, it’s ok to have to revert to the simplest forms of self care. It’s ok to act a little bit like your childhood self to gain some peace. Good luck, keep you head up
I also felt like that. Doing little things like reading a book or listening to songs helps. Just relish each and every moment, you don't have to find a meaning. You can be happy or have fun.
I felt like this when it felt like my OCD was 24/7 but ERP helped me reclaim my gratitude and joy as well as managing so much of my OCD better.
I’ve been feeling depressed lately. My ocd makes me overthink and think of bad memories. All that negativity has been making me depressed lately. I’ve found that asmr tapping videos on YouTube can help
Same here. I spend all my time thinking about this. I think the concept of “meaning”is relative to a subject. Life can’t just have a meaning, it needs to be meaningful to something. Also, meaning is the product of human mind. There is indeed no meaning without an interpretation. I think people like to assume that the meaning is to be a better self or live a happy life, or to act in a way that promote personal values. The meaning here revolves around the self. In this case, meaning is there when it realized and felt. But this seems so hard for someone with ocd. Being unable to feel the normal emotions as they arrive, being not able to do the things or even think the things we want to do or think, makes us become alienated from ourself. We realized that the positive emotion is not necessarily linked to positive event as other people would assume because intrusive thought might hit. This makes it harder to feel the self and find the meaning that revolves around a self that we are unsure about. People sometimes stand outside of self as an escape from pain. But the drawback is that there is no meaning without a self. I think as meaning is relative, it’s important to find a subject when talking about meaning. To realize one’s own meaning for one’s self, it’s important to belief in that one can find a meaning and meditate on what one loves. If it’s hard to tell or if there’s interference, then it’s important to deal with the thing that’s covering the sight (May it be ocd, ignorance, or any difficulties that we might have as humans). I’d like to think we are warriors fighting for our meaning. When we can’t see it, we believe in it and keep fighting by dealing with the origin of our confusions. And seek for understanding what we love. Because meaning resides in love and is only there when it’s realized and felt.
I feel like im no longer living im only 17 and i use to be so excited to turn 18 recently i feel like life is pointless and its all i think about including philosophy and i never liked that before. It has taken complete joy out of my life anything simple like watching a movie feels pointless because it has no meaning and i feel as if my life has zero meaning because i am not important. I am constantly criticizing everything. For example i went to a concert ive been dying to see and when i got there i didnt enjoy it all because i felt like it was pointless. Is there anyone that has experienced this that has advice I feel like im in hell rn
I’m currently reading existential psychotherapy by Irvin yalom. In his chapter.. “meaninglessness” the first paragraph he describes about a man who ended his life because he truly was overwhelmed with the “meaninglessness of life” and how doing absolutely anything was meaningless because it ended it death. The questions drove him insane and he committed. This was stated in this book and he also stated multiple people did end there life’s during an overwhelming meaning crisis. Please help. If anyone has been through this please reach out. I have stopped going to my nursing shifts. I’ve lost all hope. I believe I’m going through a horrible existential crisis. I’ve suffered from ocd my whole life but I think this might not be existential ocd. I can’t seem to create meaning in my life. I can’t seem to live without us having an inherent meaning. No answers or anything is helping. I’m really struggling. Please.
Existential ocd is deeply affecting me. A lot of people say death is equally as meaningless, I do agree, however, if life is mostly suffering and anxiety to me, then death is not as equally meaningless. It seems logical. I have severe ocd and my life is just suffering, so if life is meaningless, it’s logical for me to not see a reason to keep going. I’m not necessarily depressed. Just incredibly aware of how pointless this all is? There’s no end goal to any of this. It baffles me of how people can care about money and materialistic things, because what’s the point? You’ll die in the end and nothing will matter. ****please please please do not tell me to get into religion I’m begging you****
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