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- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 2y
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What is something you say to yourself or do that helps you get through OCD?
What is something you say to yourself or do that helps you get through OCD?
Honestly the NOCD community has been so helpful to be in. Being surrounded by people that understand what your going thru really helps. I always tell myself that this is not forever. I will not always feel like this. I imagine freedom from OCD. What it will look like for me and feel like. I meditate on that and I know i will be free one day. We all will. 100% recovery is possible!
I tell myself that Iāve recovered from other themes in the past, so Iām capable of recovering from the one Iām going through now. I know this is no different than the others, even though my brain wants to convince me otherwise.
Remembering that each time I was in an OCD flare, I became convinced I would never have a good day again, but thatās never been true.
I know itās who I am meaning that this is part time of me. I canāt run away from it but I also can be aware that it hasnāt stopped me from having a beautiful life career family etc. I experience true joy and sometimes my struggles are isolating and hard as hell but I hang on because I LOVE THIS BEAUTIFUL LIFE IVE BEEN GIVEN. I love being able to check in with all of you and also respect and appreciate all your voices and energy. Do yes I have OCD and I guess in its own way it contributes to making me who I am but I am not OCD! I am a human being with lots of love to share and everyday I get to be here w my family and loved ones is a miracle to behold!!! Rock on my fellow warriors. š„°š„°š„°š„°š„°
Be brave. Be calm
āNone of this makes any sense sometimes, but it also doesnāt have to. Life is strange and existing can be such a struggle sometimes, but I know that whatever happens Iām going to decide to be okay. I will adapt, privet, and work through the ups and downs of life because a life fully lived is a life filled with ups and downs. Right now Iām having a downā but my up is nearing soonā Thatās an old passage from my journal ā„ļø hope it suffices
Math... therapist said it uses a different part of the brain and well I aint a fan anyways so I do drug calculations. Singing even if I'm bad at it.
I wanted to share with you guys some of the things that have helped me in the past few weeks! If youāre open to it, maybe try a few and see how you feel! First I would really recommend leaning on God. If youāre not a believer you may be skeptical but if youāve never tried to read the Bible, prayer or even just talking with God, I would recommend so much! My relationship with God has gotten so much better through this terrible illness and in turn I have noticed a lot of positivity, I feel substantially better since Iāve been trying to bring this to God instead of worry about it myself. If you can give your worries to God and learn to have faith that he is with you, loves and forgives you. You have a great step towards recovery and even just a more positive life. Next, try going outside! I know it sounds kinda dumb but I mean it! Some of my best days started with just going outside, reading a book and or listening to music. I went out and tanned, ate some fruit with some lemonade and read āGirl Wash Your Faceā it was a great book! I would spend HOURS and it helped me so much! Take a walk, hike, etc.! This leads into the next thingā¦READING! I recently bought the new book ādonāt believe everything you thinkā and the workbook and it is amazing! This also applies to reading your Bible and other books, specially ones targeting self help and things like that! Another thing is fitness! Try out the gym, I know there is days that you just canāt bring yourself to get up but in those days, make yourself go to the gym! Even if you just go walk on the treadmill or bike! Anything is better than nothing! Keep yourself active, I promise it will make you feel better! Find a good podcast! I have been listening to (The OCD Stories on Spotify), sometimes Iāve even listened while I was going to sleep and let it play through the night! Go on YouTube and follow Chrissie Hodges, NOCD and look for other people who help! Go on instagram and follow Chrissie Hodges, NOCD, iocdf, sincerelyocd, recoverocd, letstalk.ocd, my lovely ocd and there are so many more! Find good music! Again Iām going to bring up worship music some of my favs being ( I Thank God, Move of God, Hard fought Hallelujah, The Truth, Made for more, Thy Will, and there is so many more!) if you would like I can share my playlist! But overall music is so helpful and if you are not a believer or want something different I would recommend songs by Katy Perry, Lady Gaga, Kesha, Rihanna, Demi Lovato, Kelly Clarkson, even Billy Joel, Queen, Beck, and things of that nature that are gonna get you PUMPED UP! Lastly, hang out with PEOPLE! Donāt let OCD rule your life, put your ocd in a box best you can and go live your life! Get lunch with a friend, join a bible study, go get a massage, even just meet up with a friend and talk in a parking lot while shoving your face with fast food! You NEED interaction as much as you donāt want to! I know some of these are hard, some is triggering or youāre nervous that youāre gonna spiral, but step out of your comfort zone! Thatās the way to get better! Do things that make you feel uncomfortable, the things that are unknown, the things you used to do before this! You can still live and love your life you donāt have to keep just āsurvivingā! And this isnāt a fix all, trust me I still have my days where Iām like nope Iām staying in bed and crying, but you need to push yourself! No one is coming to hold your hand and walk you out of this, you have to want to help yourself too! And you can do that! I know itās scary and uncomfortable but you got this! Weāre gonna kick some OCD butt! I hope you find this helpful and I wish you the most luck! Comment if you have questions and whatnot! š«¶
Hello everyone, I wanted to share something that helped me cope with OCD. I have been in therapy for years and different therapists have recommended I name my OCD like itās a monster. I always had a hard time doing it. I recently tried a different approach and itās helped me. I realized this week that my OCD isnāt a monster, itās a younger/teenage version of me who has been through a lot. She is scared and angry and upset at the world, and when she presents herself within me, I talk to her. I donāt yell and scream at her because sheās already yelling and screaming at me (everyone hates you, this is dirty, etc). Instead I talk to her: āYou donāt have to scream, you donāt have to cry, itās alright, youāre right here and now.ā Thought this might help someone. We can get through this!
I want to beat OCD because itās starting to take over my life. I always knew something was wrong/different with me and finally got an OCD diagnosis from my therapist. It made me cry when she told me, but I know I can overcome it or tolerate it better. Please give any suggestions on how you take your mind off of intrusive thoughts, obsessions, etc. š«¶š¼
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