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- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 2y
How to stop being afraid of
How to stop being afraid of Being Arrested.. And thrown in jail? And never being able to prove my Innocence?
How to stop being afraid of Being Arrested.. And thrown in jail? And never being able to prove my Innocence?
If the anticipatory dread of reading it is making you anxious- consider doing so sooner rather than later. If the erp sessions was really intense from writing it out, give yourself a break and permission to do something you enjoy as a reward and a calming tool. If you are too anxious to do that try breathing and mindfulness - I like this one: https://www.mayoclinichealthsystem.org/hometown-health/speaking-of-health/5-4-3-2-1-countdown-to-make-anxiety-blast-off đ
Wonderful thank you so much.... Can I ask you one connected thing please? When doing the worse case scenario script... I have to read it 10 minutes a day repeating it What should I be doing when I get the fear and anxiety?
ERP therapy to help you manage the fears.
@Erin P Exactly this!
I started the ERP Today it was to write out the worse case scenario but I am so jacked up after the ERP session today What would you recommend ladies? I have to read it next few days Any tips?
Feel and accept it. For me just feeling it doesnât work. But when I accept it could happen and feel the feelings they do go down and it gets easier each time. Itâs hard but you can do it. Sending you strength.
Thank you Erin... I'm ready to do this :)
@donnocd You got this.
Your brain is trying to protect you. Thatâs why the anxiety feels so real but itâs a false sense of danger. Intrusive thoughts canât hurt you and youâre in no physical danger and no one else is either. Itâs a false alarm. Your brain is on lock good news you can get it off lock you have to learn how to put all this power you put into the ruminations and anxiety into other productive activities then you can accomplish amazing things.
Fear will kill you you canât fear anymore you canât be scared you need to show your brain irrelevance and show your brain Youâre not scared. Itâs a false alarm youâre perceiving a false threat. ďżź Once youâre able to change your relationship with your thoughts, thatâs when your healing will begin and once youâre able to say youâre not scared, youâll begin to heal.
Jacked up in a bad way Feeling very anxious that's been hours now
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