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- 2y
I can’t stop
I can’t just enjoy my life. I’m seeing this guy who is younger than me. I’m a 21 yo female and he’s an 18 yo male. He’s 19 in a month not that that matters in anyway. So, we’ve been talking a couple months, only recently started seeing wa Ito her in person and we haven’t had sex yet. I didn’t want to rush it because usually I do with guys I’m seeing and then it falls apart. But, my main issue is I can’t stop thinking that it’s wrong of me to be seeing him because of our age. Everyone keeps saying to me “no there’s nothing wrong with that” and I even have 2 friends (one who is older than me) who have both been with an 18 yo and who is with one now. I just can’t stop thinking about people going “that’s a hit paedophilic” or “he’s literally a child” when he’s not and it’s not! He’s not a child he’s an adult, right? I know he’s younger but it’s only 3 years it’s not like I’m 35! Idk I just I want to like him and start something with him but all I see are people who I want in my life judging me. Even though idk if they would. But, idk I’m scared. We are also both on very similar paths. He’s got a full time job and I’m finishing uni about to start my full time job. We both live at home but want to move. He doesn’t fancy uni at all so never went, if he did though he’d be first year so we are on the same path! He’s also one of the most mature guys I’ve been with. Everything about him is mature enough to me, I’ve known guys who just fuck around and think it’s okay to act certain ways towards women, he has nothing but respect for me. So really, is there anything wrong with it? I’m scared for people’s answers but idk I’m thinking there isn’t everyone I know has said there isn’t