- Date posted
- 6y
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 6y
Agreed... I think it's the younger generation.. lots of hocd reassurance seeking... I feel bad for them but they are lucky to have something where they can find help being young.. I didn't get diagnosed until I was like 22...
- Date posted
- 6y
For example; I see posts like: "I do x and y to neutralize thoughts, any body else?". And then people advising them to stop it as it is a compulsion, even the moderators". However I see that advice being completely dismissed and the conversation in the thread becomes the most unhealthy environment for people with OCD - full of what ifs, reassurance seeking and giving (Sometimes more than once). We are talking about an addiction to certainty. It would be the equivalent of being in a support group recovery for drug addicts where people are discussing ways to find and buy dope. Just unbelievable.
- Date posted
- 6y
I understand how this app can help them feel less alone; however, at the same time they are turning it into a nest of compulsions to feed their obsession, whether they have OCD or not. It is like blind people guiding other blind people.
- Date posted
- 6y
Yes my exact thoughts. I believe this app somehow allowed people to ruminate on their obsessions.
- Date posted
- 6y
"blind people guiding other blind people" ? Some of us are not that blind anymore ?. But yes I completely agree, administrators should take an action or somehow create like a timeout or max posts per day or something.
- Date posted
- 6y
I didn't mean people like you, with experience. I meant when undiagnosed people without zero CBT training go onto advise other newbies.
- Date posted
- 6y
Very true. They should moderate properly and make sure any wrong advices, reassurances, compulsive suspicion posts get deleted.
- Date posted
- 6y
Yes, absolutely agree. But yet again, people actually listening to the mods and not doing reassurances is not really something that can controllable. Not seeking reassurances by banning or deleting the post might not be fruitful. And people at early phases of OCD tends to be very reluctant in listening to actual advices from experienced people but rather listen to their obsessions. I would say everyone who is on the app should get diagnosed first.
- Date posted
- 6y
First of all, I don’t think that people should be diagnosed first, I haven’t been officially diagnosed and you won’t believe how helpful this app has been for me. I’ve been struggling with ocd since I was 7-8 years old (I’m 30), and I’ve learned more than a couple of things from reading other people’s experiences, (cbt/erp, how to delay/stop compulsions, labeling ocd thoughts, etc) but I do have to say that I really don’t pay attention to posts that are obviously written by teens, cause they don’t seem to care or even pay attention to the advice from experienced people, or moderators and they completely ignore the response from the mods telling them that they seem to be seeking reassurance, and that they should stop. I think they’re just using the app to get instant relief, instead of using it as a tool to get better in the long run. It’s a good thing that they can come here and relate with other people’s feelings, problems or themes, but I don’t think they want the help that this app was meant to give in the first place, all they want is reassurance and to know “they’re not gay” Second, I do think that they should keep an eye on peoples responses, i know I would never try to give advice on meds, or things that I don’t know nothing about, and would never give reassurance. Third, I agree that there has to be consequences with people that ignore the rules, like silencing them for a few hours, banning, or even a max posts per day like anonymous22 said.
- Date posted
- 6y
I've seen the administrators step in multiple times regarding reassurance seeking.
- Date posted
- 6y
I don't particularly think it is only the younger generation, but anyone who has recently developed or started having OCD episodes and has not yet been diagnosed might be doing this. But that is I think better than to have a panic attack or something but I still advice to get professionally diagnosed first.
- Date posted
- 6y
I think the app should also educate people about reassurance so they don’t go seeking for it in chats!!
- Date posted
- 6y
Well I’m 9
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- 23w
So thankful to have found this app 😭 my 15 year old is struggling with what is unofficially diagnosed OCD (counselor is starting the process to diagnose but she fits SO much of what we’re reading and she’s at least 4th generation OCD’r). We are in a bad spiral right now with her, especially centered around sleep and it just feels so hard. Just wanted to say thank you for helping me not feel alone.
- Date posted
- 20w
I’m kind of frustrated because for YEARS I’ve been trying to express my concerns. For about 6-7 years I’ve been concerned about having OCD. I’m not diagnosed and I want to talk to a professional to confirm whether or not I have it. I have been struggling with several symptoms over many years of my life and it has been absolutely distressing. I’ve expressed my concerns to two doctors. One of them pretended like they didn’t hear me and the other did give me scenarios that I experience. When I said yes to the ones that applied to me, she said “well it’s very normal for people to wash their hands a lot and check door locks” well yeah but what I experience is so much more than that and it’s been absolutely horrendous. I have super bad compulsions and intrusive thoughts, at some point I broke a TV because I felt like I had to throw these little coasters at it for 5 times. And then after those 5 times, the way I threw it didn’t feel right, so I had to do it again and again until it felt right and then it broke :/ The doctor later told me that they can recommend me to professionals but my mom didn’t want me to because of fear that I can get medicated. But I just want to talk to a professional to be able to express my concerns about it. I also feel bad about talking about what I experience because I don’t want people to think that I’m trying to self diagnose myself. I just want to be able to recognize my struggles and try to overcome what I go through. All I want is help. At some point I went to therapy and I had three sessions and then my mom pulled me out. But in those sessions I haven’t talked about my struggles with OCD yet, I was talking about other issues and my therapist was still trying to get to know me. :( Sometimes when I’ve talked to my parents they don’t really try to listen. Sometimes they tell me “well everyone has a little bit of OCD”. Okay, well I’m not talking about everyone, I’m talking about ME. And back when I struggled so much with violent intrusive thoughts, it was also a time where I felt like I HAD to tell my parents about every thought that I had. And my parents were concerned and thought that I was just in general violent. But I’m not violent, I don’t believe these things. And they STILL don’t want to hear me out on my concerns after all of that. I just want to feel validated with what I go through. I am convinced that I struggle with OCD, but I want to be SURE. I don’t want to feel like I’m self diagnosing. I want to KNOW what I’ve been experiencing all these years. I really do like this app because I feel like I finally relate to other people and that I can REALLY talk about my struggles while being understood. Whether or not if I do have it, I feel really understood and I really understand and relate with others. But anyways I hope I can figure this whole thing out one day😓🙏
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 18w
I’m getting very concerned that the general forum is unregulated and people who have self-diagnosed with OCD, but do not have OCD, are posting there. What is your opinion about this? I read a post from someone who thinks they have POCD, but it sounds awfully like p*dophilic disorder to me. As someone who has been diagnosed with POCD, this is very triggering to me. Any thoughts/advice?
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