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Help please
Ok so before my girlfriend and I were official and this was the very beginning where we started getting feelings for each other this random lady messaged me and said I was cute and I thought it was weird because I was like 16 at the time and she was like 30isj and I just said thank you and idk I guess I liked the attention and wanted to make my current girlfriend jealous because I honestly had issues with toxicity back then(yeah I know I shouldn’t have done that). However, I entertained the conversation a little bit it wasn’t anything flirty she was just asking me if I have any piercings. and she sent me a randomly sent me a picture of her nipple piercings, and I already told my girlfriend about this when it happened and she got a little annoyed at the woman but she got over it pretty fast. and now 3 years later I’m obsessing about it again. I told my girlfriend about it again because when I clicked on the picture she sent I had a feeling I knew what it was. I’m kicking myself for still opening it but my girlfriend is like “it’s not like you asked for it or anything anyways” and I didn’t of course, however I’m randomly thinking what if I was trying to get her to send that. And I asked her if I did ask for it, would that have been cheating since this was before we were together. And she said no. However I’m scared if I actually did it would be a different story. She obviously doesn’t want to hear about this anymore so I’m not gonna talk about it anymore. Can I have some help though?