I’m in denial I really like this guy and I really want to tell him that I love him but he just does small talk with me I keep doubting what to text him I really wish I could just get a boyfriend and not have to deal with all of this
Don’t make getting a boyfriend your number one priority. If he’s showing he’s not interested, then don’t push it and move on. Focus on loving yourself
Follow that advice, make yourself your number priority and see what happens with this guy, but it cosse nothing does no big deal. Easier sad than done but I have obsessed over a person who I had a relationship with, I was in love, but too early and at that stage it was mostly about sex for her. I’m not blaming her, I should have seen that happen but instead I decided to obsess over her and f everything up.
Self care first. You're seeking meaning, direction from God. I see that in so many of your posts where you ask for prayer. A boyfriend isn't the answer as it's only going to complicate and distract you." Seek first the kingdom of God and all these things will be added to you"
hey there, i totally get how tough the struggle with OCD can be, especially when it's tangling up your feelings and making social stuff like texting that guy feel like a maze with no exit. it's super frustrating, and i feel for you. even though my own battle is more with the pure o side of things, the confusion and the doubt is something i can relate to. just so you know, i'm here if you need someone to listen, someone who gets the whole OCD mind tangle. so, my therapist told me about this free ai ocd therapy tool called "unstuck" (you can check it out at www.AIOCDtool.com), and it might be a good fit for what you're facing. it's tailored to help with the exact kind of situation you're describing, where you're caught in a loop over what to text and all that. what it does is pretty neat – it acts like a virtual ocd therapist, guiding you through your thoughts step-by-step to help you get unstuck when your OCD is cranking up the volume. i totally get the eye-roll at app promotions, but honestly, this isn't about that. this tool has been a game-changer for me, and i genuinely think it could offer you some solid support. not pushing it on you, just think it's worth a shot. if you've got any questions about how it works or anything, feel free to ask. i'm all ears. 🙂
So I’m just getting scared because every time I do something with my boyfriend I say is this what I want? Am I happy? Then I think about this kid I had a thing with over a year ago and I’m convinced that I like wanna be with him and not my boyfriend and it’s just so hard I’m so worried and so afraid that it’s just how I feel.. then I get worry to settle even tho it’s like a switch just flipped from one day to the next..
I literally feel like i never liked my boyfriend at all and im faking it and im really in denial. i can’t stop crying idk what to do anymore
I feel like now I’m just completely in denial and the next step is acceptance. I love my boyfriend will all of my heart and I really don’t want to leave him but now I’m scared I have to. I also just read something someone left on someone else’s post saying how exploring your sexuality is something you should not be ashamed of and should try. That just completely sent me over the edge. The thing is I want to like boys but I feel like at this point it’s not my choice I was just born to be a lesbian and I have to accept that even though it’s not what I want. I feel like this is something my relationship can never recover from and now I just have to break up with my boyfriend and move away to be with a woman. I don’t want to hurt him ever and that’s truly my biggest fear. Every time I feel happy with him there’s always the thought in the back of my head that I would be happy doing the same things with a girl and it truly ruins the moment. I can’t get this out of my head and I would really appreciate some advice. I just want to know I like boys too so I can stay with him forever but I know I am never going to find the reassurance I need so I feel like I’m never gonna get over this bc it’s just the truth. This is so painful I don’t know what to do at this point
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