Am I bad person? My mom passed away from brain cancer a few months ago. A friend of mines mom also has cancer. But their mom has been improving and doing better. While I’m happy for them I’m jealous that they get their mom to be able to recover and mine died. I feel really bad feeling this way but it just doesn’t seem fair
You are not a bad person. I lost my mom in November and it hurts. We are human. It’s ok to feel the way you feel. Cancer is a terrible thing. It’s random and unfair. Give yourself a break!!! Here to talk if you need support
@Goolies Thanks I really appreciate it. I don’t really know anyone else who lost a mom in the last few months like I have. It sucks it happened at an early age for me
@Goolies Also my mom passed in November as well but feels like just yesterday
I feel like it’s normal to feel that way. Losing a mom is not easy, you were a part of her and no one can understand it unless they have also felt that loss. You’re allowed to feel however you want.
I'm very sorry to hear about your mother passing. You are not a bad person for feeling all of these feelings. Losing someone close to you is always hard and you will process a lot of emotions that don't exactly make sense. It's very painful.
@BigGyro09 Yes it really is
You have come through a very horrible and tragic situation. Your reactions show you are only human and TBH most people would be thinking and feeling very much in a similar way as you are whether they choose to admit it or not. Hang in there as cliched as this might sound things will greatly improve if you give things enough time to pass .
@777Q Thank you!!
cancer is a life sucking jerk. i’m so so deeply sorry for your loss. you are not a bad person for this. The Lord loves you ❤️
I need help please My mom passed away in december of last year and only haver passes some months and It appears my father is talking with another woman. Me and my sister, dont know what we should do. I am starting to get depressed about this. I was feeling better and now I dont know what to do. My sister is angry about this and me too. We havent talked to him yet. What makes me confused is that my sister looks to be talking with someone too... And then theres me, a person who doesnt have any friends, that doesnt talk with nobody. I am a lonely person. Again my sister talked about leaving and without saying, I would end up alone with my father without knowing what to do, like a lost child I feel sometimes I am to people like a poor toy who nobody wants, but that I am used and then they throw me away I dont even know what to do or to feel and yet I need to hear my sister saying I am selfish...
I feel like I’m a bad person
Has anyone dealt with losing a parent while in your 20’s? 2 months ago was the worst day of my life. My mom had been battling an incurable brain cancer for 2 years. Her condition got really bad a little more than 2 months ago. She declined quickly and two months ago today, I watched her be unconsciously carried out on a stretcher out of my house and then a few hours later pass away. It has hit me hard and I still get these bad memory flashbacks of all the bad things I experienced. Has anyone dealt with this? I feel so alone and I don’t like to ask for help. It’s been 2 months and no one really checks on me. I’m trying to keep it together but some days it’s just so hard.
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