- Date posted
- 1y
how to get over insecurity on looks
I feel like my ocd about my looks is sort of fueling my ocd over race and beauty. I have this one friend who isn't into Asians or Indians and that's his preference and is fine. Me and this other former friend (ugh he's so annoying wouldn't stop hitting on me and anything else he saw) Anyways I'm bisexual and we were talking about our preferences in dating. I said I have a thing for dark skin and I liked Indian women and black women. He listed specific European countries, and some middle Eastern countries. He was super specific about the certain regions and countries so I think he knows Europe well or something. He wasn't talking about white people as a race just specific countries and he's mentioned that race has nothing to do with attractivness, skin tone has nothing to do with attractivness . But my brain is automatically going to "everyone thinks white women are more beautiful and you're not gonna be anyone's type". Is this a reach? Even the friend who said that said I was objectively quite good looking, and said he'd date every race. Odds are he was talking about style and aesthetics rather than festures. Idk how to get over that weird racial insecurity I have. What helps is my Indian friends are gorgeous so if someone doesn't like them that's their problem