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- 51w ago
To the people that have had success.
What are your best pieces of advice? Other than get a therapist cause some of us are months away from seeing one.
What are your best pieces of advice? Other than get a therapist cause some of us are months away from seeing one.
Learn about ERP (exposure response prevention), because that's what you'd work on with an OCD specialist. Practice mindfulness and meditation. Learning to be present, and to notice exactly what you're feeling emotionally and physically is crucial. Get regular exercise. Eat a balanced diet. Form strong social connections. Quality over quantity! Just 1-2 people who you feel comfortable sharing your deep thoughts with is hugely beneficial. Hobbies and passions are always helpful. Especially ones that bring you into the present moment (like anything creative). Ideally they don't involve too much screen time. Altruism is very helpful. Do some volunteer work, or make an effort to be kind to others. We are naturally wired to be mentally rewarded when we do that. That's what comes to mind off the top of my head!
-Drink more water/stay hydrated, -Minimum 7 hours of sleep per night, Get on a daily and nightly routine (as in you have a schedule and you go to bed at the same time and wake up at the same time unless sick or on holiday), -Cut back on or completely cut out sugar and carbs and focus more on protein, healthy fats, and veggies, -Go outside for at least 30 minutes a day, -Exercise every day or every other day. This includes weight lifting and cardio and stretching, -Pick up a hobby or two (or more!) that can be done with others and by yourself, -Check out Yoga with Adriene on YouTube for free yoga content, -Check out either the Calm app or Insight Timer app for meditations ( 20 minutes per day as the end goal but start with 5 minutes and work your way up. It WILL take time), -Practice mindfulness all day, every day. And this is a life long process, -Seek out therapy (also for life), -Medication if it works for you, -Look into grounding techniques for when things get hard, -Spend more time with loved ones (it does not have to be blood related if you have abusive family members).
Lol I got sleep apnea and a torn labrum.. 7 hours is a tough one for me but great for others. The OCD makes me dread bedtime but I'm at least trying fo me same bedtime every night over the last week.
@Mr. Baldbastic Studies have shown the brain needs an average of 7 hours and 13 minutes to fully function. We do have a sleep crisis in the US and other countries. If you want a jolt of reality about sleep, Why We Sleep by Matthew Walker PhD is great.
@Nica Hopefully I get some improvement once I get my CPAP.
I just invested in a VR meta quest and going to buy the Virtual meditation app.. Heard from a friend that's very good...
@donnocd Quest 3?
@Mr. Baldbastic Quest 2..the three was a little to expensive for me
Some very good suggestions already mentioned on this thread. To further add Mark Freeman has free You Tube resources a program every two weeks called Brain Tech Support Live . Walking often to the extent your physician permits you to , that in itself can assist mental , physical and emotional wellbeing. Stopping smoking completely. Supplements, medication, reading , exercise.
Typo not medication that is meditation.
Educate yourself. You can watch 5 different people talk about the same thing with ocd but sometimes only one of them kind of clicks with you and how you'd approach recovery. There's a YouTube channel called ocd and anxiety (I think) and he is a very nice guy and is well versed in his field of expertise but his approach is too limp for me sometimes. However, the info he provides is too tier
I know some might roll their eyes at this but can't the fake it until you make it thing be used as a tool? It kinda makes you sit with the anxiety for a bit and go on with your day.
@Mr. Baldbastic Yeah definitely. Talk back to the OCD like you don’t care about it. Non-engagement responses are great for this.
@alissaa This is a 12 round fight. Problem is that we have no damn idea how long each of these rounds are lol.
@Mr. Baldbastic Especially when you know the shit is mental and you almost feel it physically subconsciously.
★ The first step is confessing , if you don't find a therapist , I think this app can help you to confess your OCD because it's the first step towards healing I wish you speedy recovery
Confessing is a compulsion though. Besides I have a fiance for that and she's wonderful with that I just try not to overload her.
Do you ever have a situation in front of you and you genuinely don’t know the best way to get through it? Like a difficult situation but the question is do you grind it out or use self compassion and give yourself breaks? There are so many different philosophies to follow, even if they’re not formal philosophies. For example, I have watched a lot of David Goggins and Jocko Willink on YouTube. Both of them have very extreme philosophies of discipline and how to handle hardship. Both of their philosophies have helped me during times of hardships in my life. But other philosophies have also helped me at other times of hardships in my life, philosophies that have more to do with self kindness and self compassion. So sometimes it seems like there’s so many approaches to how to live life that it’s paralyzing. Were any of y’all able to overcome the seemingly endless amount of choices towards mindsets to approach life with? How were y’all able to overcome this?
I’ve been spiraling for days I can barely sleep. I worked so hard to get into grad school and now i’m gonna fail because I can’t focus on anything else. The fact that my real events range from years ago and recently make me feel like I’ve always been a bad person. I keep trying to understand my intentions I feel like I don’t know who I am anymore. I’m looking into starting therapy and medication soon but I need some advice on some healthy coping skills in the meantime.
I have contamination OCD that causes me to excessively wash my hands/clean items with disinfectant wipes. I know I just need to start with small exposures but how do I do that without spiraling? I tried a while back by just touching the outside of my dishwasher and not washing my hands after and it led to me being unable to even exist in my house. I basically lived on my couch for three weeks as it was the only 'safe' space that I had not touched with my dirty hands. I had to take a week off work to clean my house to make it somewhat liveable. I still haven't got round to cleaning everything though so things like my kitchen are still no-go zones that I don't enter. I just don't know how to start ERP without it making everything worse. Any advice would be appreciated. I am not seeing a therapist at the moment due to financial constraints.
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